By Anonymous - 18/05/2022 12:00
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Yeah, you could have lent her the dildo and let her go out with a bang. No, but seriously, you most likely could not have changed her fate even if you were a heart surgeon.
My ex lost her stepdad many years ago the same way. Most of the time, either they make it or they don’t; you could have been right there and almost certainly wouldn’t be able to change the outcome.
there was nothing you could have done. she was asleep, most likely you could have been sitting right beside her and have had no idea. it is unfortunate timing, but even if you were her full time carer you need, and are entitled to, a few minutes of alone time.
Babes, you are NOT guilty in this scenario. I know there's nothing any of us can say to take that feeling away, but factually, you're not. Heart Attacks can happen so suddenly, and 9/10 times there's nothing you can do but hope they come out of it okay. Regardless though, I'm so sorry for your loss and what you're going through. I lost my grandma 7 years ago, extremely suddenly. The pain doesn't go away. But every day, it gets a little easier to handle. Keeping their memory alive helps