You don't realize it yet but almost everything you think will happen, won't. A. You won't wallow for the rest of your life. It will pass. B. He won't make the new girl happy for long, because C. He's a dirtbag and not worth marrying. He did you a favor by demonstrating this before you married that schmuck. In 10, 20, 30 years he's still going to be the guy who is unworthy of you, and you will have long since moved on. The best revenge you can take out on him is to live your life well, be your best self with someone who is worthy of you, and make him utterly irrelevant. Good luck, OP.

It hurts now, and it seems like the world is at end, but it will pass. You will find someone who respects you and love you to marry and have a family with. Please don't do anything rash, if the pain seems too much it's ok to ask for help. A professional can help get through those hard time and back into the light.

Right now everything hurts, and it's ok to grieve. But everything happens for a reason. You dodged a bullet with that unloyal shit bag. There is another, better waiting for you that is looking for everything your ex took for granted, and you will find him

If it's any consolation, he'll probably dump her, too, when he finds the next BBD.

Go to therapy and upgrade

I’m so sorry :( take time to process and recover. however, you will find someone better who is worth your time. Karma will get his ass.

no one owes us our own happiness. if you're not happy without it, then your happiness depending on someone else, their actions, their morality, is going to be detrimental to your mental health. love yourself and you'll attract someone who will love you, not the person who attached and lost herself

The title of this fml is accurate.

I’m sorry for what you’re going through, and while I haven’t ever been in that same situation I, and all of us, know what it’s like to get our heart broken and feel in the moment like it’s the end of the world and impossible to go on. But it isn’t, and you have to remind yourself day in and day out until you finally heal that this too, will pass. Somebody who’s capable of doing something that shitty wasn’t worthy of you anyway. Trust that there’s something greater out there for you, and please don’t hurt yourself over something and someone who isn’t even worth it. Seek therapy & counseling, talk to friends and family, dive deep into your work, school, hobbies, travel, etc. and instead focus on building back better & becoming who you were always meant to be. I promise that with some time and some leaning on your friends you will find happiness again. Good luck to you