Polytrouble

By Anonymous - 07/11/2023 00:02

Today, I'm in a polyamorous relationship. My husband and my boyfriend are both aware and are okay with it. Today they met. Not only are they okay with each other, they’ve hit it off. They've drafted a schedule of which days they want, meals, and chores for me on those days. FML
I agree, your life sucks 161
You deserved it 909

Same thing different taste

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Schm17ty 1

Sounds like they’re treating you like a shared servant if they’re divvying up which meals they want and which chores they want you to do. Unless you’re into that, I’d be careful of letting them take advantage of you out of any repressed guilt about seeing two people. Just make sure it’s reciprocal with each partner, again unless your kink is sexy servant, in which case rock on.

Great! Maybe you three can share the rent, chores, and use of the cars. Maybe hire a notary for the contract.

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Schm17ty 1

Sounds like they’re treating you like a shared servant if they’re divvying up which meals they want and which chores they want you to do. Unless you’re into that, I’d be careful of letting them take advantage of you out of any repressed guilt about seeing two people. Just make sure it’s reciprocal with each partner, again unless your kink is sexy servant, in which case rock on.

Great! Maybe you three can share the rent, chores, and use of the cars. Maybe hire a notary for the contract.

yeah being poly myself I'd be thrilled if my partners hit it off but pretty damn upset over them just divying me up like that. that's not how this works