No, it is a bad design. They should know that their target market would include small-dicked guys. Sorry you got screwed by that company!

Not that you can return it now, but you can buy one that is for smaller sex organs. And if you have a micropenis, try a toy aimed at trans men who are on testosterone. There are tools to help get off for small dicks. No shame, no worries!

Same experience here, so you're not alone. Two things: (1) The majority of women I've been with have been satisfied enough with our sex that they've talked about it to their girlfriends or asked to hook up even after we stopped dating or given some other semi-public sign that they've enjoyed the experience, so I can say that I'm not so small that it bothers most women who I am attracted to (I'm short so I go for smaller women). Don't lose your self esteem or confidence over this. (2) After 22 years of marriage, I ********** often enough that I suspect part of the problem is that I've desensitized my dick way more than it was when I was having sex a much higher percentage of the time. If you masturbatee a lot, it might help (both for the toy and for your next partner) to gradually reduce the amount of pressure and friction you apply. This is commonly given advice for guys that find penetration to be insufficient to ******.