But they are Transformers. seriously though. I feel for you. $500 is a bit much for transformers toys(unless it is a complete set of G-1 toys).

If you seek a solution, turn to the accumulated wisdom that resides within The Matrix.

Once people reach their early 20’s most do not usually change very much in personality or values (at least until they become infirm in their old age). I am betting husband had issues like this when you married him. Small changes is usually the best we can expect in our loved ones as our relationship matures unless there is a major crisis. (But then some people break down in a crisis and some grow and mature and it can be hard to predict which way things will fall - So do not try to manage things by provoking a crisis.) Best of luck on saving for a house - It’s a long haul but well worth it.

So unorder them.