By Anonymous - 1/6/2020 23:00

Non-baby fever

Today, I found out that my fiancé, with whom I've been with for 10 years, doesn't want to have sex with me because he thinks I'm going to trap him into having a baby. He sees me take my contraceptive pill nightly and knows I was booked in for having a coil fitted before Covid-19 happened. FML
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By  mayaklast  |  11

The fact that he sees you taking the pill isn't the problem here. If he has so little trust in you and absolutely doesn't want a baby but isn't ready to take the appropriate mesures to prevent this himself... well, that doesn't bode well for your relationship.

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By  mayaklast  |  11

The fact that he sees you taking the pill isn't the problem here. If he has so little trust in you and absolutely doesn't want a baby but isn't ready to take the appropriate mesures to prevent this himself... well, that doesn't bode well for your relationship.

By  thatkorean  |  5

Leave him before it gets worse. He’s obviously not ready for a marriage. 10 years and he doesn’t trust you? That’s a HUGE red flag. Sounds like he’d run if you did accidentally get pregnant.

By  faifai_fml  |  21

Ten years and you're still not married and "he doesn't want to be trapped"? Honey.
Honey.
No one's still a fiance after 10 years unless someone just really doesn't want to get married.