By Anonymous - 1/6/2020 23:00

Non-baby fever

Today, I found out that my fiancé, with whom I've been with for 10 years, doesn't want to have sex with me because he thinks I'm going to trap him into having a baby. He sees me take my contraceptive pill nightly and knows I was booked in for having a coil fitted before Covid-19 happened. FML
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By  mayaklast  |  11

The fact that he sees you taking the pill isn't the problem here. If he has so little trust in you and absolutely doesn't want a baby but isn't ready to take the appropriate mesures to prevent this himself... well, that doesn't bode well for your relationship.

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By  mayaklast  |  11

The fact that he sees you taking the pill isn't the problem here. If he has so little trust in you and absolutely doesn't want a baby but isn't ready to take the appropriate mesures to prevent this himself... well, that doesn't bode well for your relationship.

By  thatkorean  |  5

Leave him before it gets worse. He’s obviously not ready for a marriage. 10 years and he doesn’t trust you? That’s a HUGE red flag. Sounds like he’d run if you did accidentally get pregnant.

By  goodernme  |  18

I have to agree with other posters. The issue isn’t the birth control, it’s the trust. If he believes that you’ll “trap” him after 10 years together, a) he doesn’t trust you and b) he’s not in it for the long haul. Do yourself a favour and get rid of him.