Non-baby fever

By Anonymous - 01/06/2020 23:00

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Today, I found out that my fiancé, with whom I've been with for 10 years, doesn't want to have sex with me because he thinks I'm going to trap him into having a baby. He sees me take my contraceptive pill nightly and knows I was booked in for having a coil fitted before Covid-19 happened. FML
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The fact that he sees you taking the pill isn't the problem here. If he has so little trust in you and absolutely doesn't want a baby but isn't ready to take the appropriate mesures to prevent this himself... well, that doesn't bode well for your relationship.

10 years and he doesn’t trust you with contraception? Writing is on the wall, move on.

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10 years and he doesn’t trust you with contraception? Writing is on the wall, move on.

Whatever jerk people think he is, he has my vote of confidence :)

The fact that he sees you taking the pill isn't the problem here. If he has so little trust in you and absolutely doesn't want a baby but isn't ready to take the appropriate mesures to prevent this himself... well, that doesn't bode well for your relationship.

this^ I rarely say this here because the stories are so short and one sided, but in this case I have no issue saying leave him

The dumb fuck has already been trapped for 10 years!

Leave him before it gets worse. He’s obviously not ready for a marriage. 10 years and he doesn’t trust you? That’s a HUGE red flag. Sounds like he’d run if you did accidentally get pregnant.

He has a side piece. Move on before you waste another 10 years

You shouldn’t marry someone who doesn’t trust you.

Harle is that you?

Ex-fiance, I hope?

Ten years and you're still not married and "he doesn't want to be trapped"? Honey. Honey. No one's still a fiance after 10 years unless someone just really doesn't want to get married.