No brainer

By Viscerion - 31/01/2023 06:30

Today, I need to know whether it's better to be in a relationship in which I'm not loved and have no intimacy, or live on my own with no family or friends. if I were alone though, I could live in my underwear and eat cereal for dinner if I wanted to. FML
I agree, your life sucks 742
You deserved it 157

Same thing different taste

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TomeDr 24

Take it from me, being lonely, when you’re alone is far better than being lonely when you’re in a relationship.

on your own and on your own terms is much better. especially with a pet!

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Go live on your own and find some friends. Reach out to coworkers, join a gym, find a book club, whatever.

on your own and on your own terms is much better. especially with a pet!

Never remain in a relationship where you are not loved. Like someone else stated, get a pet and live on your own. There is nothing wrong with living in your underwear and eating cereal for dinner as long as you are happy doing it. Live your life the way you want

TomeDr 24

Take it from me, being lonely, when you’re alone is far better than being lonely when you’re in a relationship.

lalalaila777 24

you need to decide which is best for you, sometimes the loneliness in a relationship can be fixed if communication and empathy are given to each other. if it doesn't help or make it what you desire, then start thinking what changes you need to do to bring your happiness. if it's ending it, the more power to you. good luck

You deserve better! You can have a loveless relationship AND live in your underwear and eat cereal for dinner. If they don't care about you, why would they care if you lounge about in your tighty-whities? That's what I call "Having It All!™️" I ought to become a motivational speaker.

I was married to a wannabe dictator who secretly hated me and ruled me with an iron fist. Everything I did was wrong. She even mocked my achievements, ones she could never hope to accomplish on her own. So yeah, being alone is better than deluding yourself into thinking you’re happily married when you’re actually the opposite.

being alone is better than being with the wrong person. period.

Compromise: 1) Eat Cereal for dinner. this is non-negotiable. 2) Be yourself and find someone who also will chill in their skivies. Look for comfort with someone. While there is nothing wrong with finding the trophy S.O., be yourself and you will find the comfort you actually desire.