By Anonymous - 7/9/2020 04:02 - United States - Akron

Nice guy DESTROYED by FACTS and LOGIC

Today, after a year and a half, I finally cut things off with my ex completely because I was starting to have feelings for someone else. Right after I cut my ex off, the other girl that I liked cut things off with me, and threw my ass in the friendzone. FML
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By  chyiochan  |  30

OP didn't cheat, he did what you're suppose to do. If you are falling for someone else, you break it off with who you're currently with before ACTING upon that interest. He probably became good friends with the other person and realized he felt more. So to make it so he wouldn't cheat, he broke it off with his current GF. He did everything absolutely correctly, although lost both in the end.

People need to realize, the new dating feeling butterflies disappears after a while, and if that's what you search for instead of realizing its normal to not have them forever, you get yourself in a loop of thinking you're missing something when you're really not. There's so many stages of a relationship! Being with my husband for 14 years, married for almost 11 of them, butterflies stopped after a year or two. Now we're just best of friends, in love and enjoy our mutual company! Things happen when they're meant to happen. Enjoy it!!

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  chyiochan  |  30

OP didn't cheat, he did what you're suppose to do. If you are falling for someone else, you break it off with who you're currently with before ACTING upon that interest. He probably became good friends with the other person and realized he felt more. So to make it so he wouldn't cheat, he broke it off with his current GF. He did everything absolutely correctly, although lost both in the end.

People need to realize, the new dating feeling butterflies disappears after a while, and if that's what you search for instead of realizing its normal to not have them forever, you get yourself in a loop of thinking you're missing something when you're really not. There's so many stages of a relationship! Being with my husband for 14 years, married for almost 11 of them, butterflies stopped after a year or two. Now we're just best of friends, in love and enjoy our mutual company! Things happen when they're meant to happen. Enjoy it!!

By  lifeis4me  |  20

If she knew you were still hung up on your ex for so long, that could’ve been the reason why she friend zoned you. On the bright side, now you have a clean slate to start with