Never cross that line

By Anonymous - 17/10/2023 10:00

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Today, my lesbian best friend told me she might be bi and wanted to try sex with a guy she trusts, AKA me. She eventually convinced me, but after we'd had 'weird best friend sex' she decided she’s a lesbian after all, and I “took advantage of her temporary confusion,” so we’re not friends anymore. WTF? FML
I agree, your life sucks 884
You deserved it 138

Same thing different taste

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PinkLifeMatter 1

Gay, Straight, Bi, Poly….whatever never cross that best friend line. It never works out

OP - No matter how good you are at sex or how you feel about your friend, that’s a minefield! The risk was obviously there that it just wasn’t going to work out for her and then you would be a daily reminder that she tried something that didn’t work out for her. And that’s probably why she ended the friendship… It’s pretty pathetic that she now wants to claim you took advantage of her confusion. Would you really want to remain friends with someone like that? People try things and make mistakes, but that’s pretty immature for her to try to blame you for her choice. It’s also possible she was looking for a sperm donation with a side of child support afterwards - I hope you used protection! A woman doesn’t have to have an ****** to get pregnant.

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An example of why hook up culture isn't a good idea. It's like Russian roulette. Try to avoid hook ups in the future.

She's probably mad that she had to "convince" you. You should have dropped your pants as soon as she said anything about wanting sex. And you probably stunk at it.

OP - No matter how good you are at sex or how you feel about your friend, that’s a minefield! The risk was obviously there that it just wasn’t going to work out for her and then you would be a daily reminder that she tried something that didn’t work out for her. And that’s probably why she ended the friendship… It’s pretty pathetic that she now wants to claim you took advantage of her confusion. Would you really want to remain friends with someone like that? People try things and make mistakes, but that’s pretty immature for her to try to blame you for her choice. It’s also possible she was looking for a sperm donation with a side of child support afterwards - I hope you used protection! A woman doesn’t have to have an ****** to get pregnant.

PinkLifeMatter 1

Gay, Straight, Bi, Poly….whatever never cross that best friend line. It never works out

well actually the best relationships stem from the best friendships. but ok

had something very similar happen. i even asked her at least 10 times if she was sure.