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He asked if you'd be comfortable. You said no. He really should have anticipated that as a possibility... FYL for having a boyfriend whose thoughts on consent seem to be "ask... and if they say no, they're a prude."

Being unwilling to do that does not make you a prude. Perhaps, there is another way to fulfill his fantasy in that area. If you are unwilling to explore those options, then you are a prude.

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Being unwilling to do that does not make you a prude. Perhaps, there is another way to fulfill his fantasy in that area. If you are unwilling to explore those options, then you are a prude.

Move on, he's gay. Sorry you had to find out that way. Don't give him a blumpkin.

A man can enjoy anal play without being gay. Besides anything else, even if it DID indicate attraction to men (which it absolutely doesn't), people can be attracted to more than one gender. That's kinda like saying women who enjoy getting oral are lesbians because that's one of the ways lesbians have sex.

Anything is possible, but I'm thinking once he gets a toy up his butt, he'll soon want the real deal.

Pansexuality and bisexuality are a thing, ya know. My husband is really into pegging, and I genuinely enjoy doing it for him. We're both a little gay, and that's totally fine. We've been happy together for going on 7 years.

He asked if you'd be comfortable. You said no. He really should have anticipated that as a possibility... FYL for having a boyfriend whose thoughts on consent seem to be "ask... and if they say no, they're a prude."

peg the poor man. that's like him saying he doesn't feel comfortable going down on you. that's where their fun spot is lol. you could use a figure instead of full on pegging him. there are other toys too

If he didn't feel comfortable going down on her, he'd have the same right to refuse to do it and she should accept it.

Yeah, it's time to leave that "man"

not sure why man is in quotations. unless you're so ignorant and closed-minded that you don't think someone can enjoy things that you don't

My boyfriend had.. yes had that same fetish. It was very very weird to me at first but I slowly warmed up to the idea after like 4 or 5 months I did try with him(just fingers) and he has decided that he doesn’t want that anymore lol

fyl, its okay to not want to do that, kudos to you for considering it, and for your name lol

I mean, you’re not a prude and he’s being manipulative. Though I do wonder what the out of comfort is, only cause it’s wearing a strap on and humping lol. But you totally have that right and it sucks he’s manipulative and childish.