I'm guessing he cares for you as much as you care for him. You're not really boyfriend/girlfriend, you are "fuck buddies."

It’s more of a F his life. Imagine being upset you didn’t get caught cheating and being shady af

Wait...so you care little enough about your boyfriend to think it's ok to have phone sex with another guy, but are upset that he cares little enough for you to not be upset that you're having phone sex with another guy. Sounds like the two of are about equal here in your level of care for the other person. So what's the problem? Maybe he's banging someone else and isn't a hypocrite so figures the playing field is level.

You sound like an awesome girlfriend

People like you disgust me. If you want him to know that you are cheating then you just want him to dump you. If you don’t like him, break up with him. Stop playing stupid games, more like F his life not yours. He needs to find a girl who is better at communicating

Sounds like both of you are uncaring and apathetic. Not to mention that you deserve to get dumped.

You my dear are absolute trash

Hopefully he saw and will justifiably dump you. you have no right to complain in this scenario