By Stressed out mom - 07/03/2018 01:30
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How is he dirt bag? Maybe she shouldn't have slept with someone she just met and knew nothing about it. Or was too stupid to even use a condom.
The fake phone number and not giving a last name makes him a dirt bag. He knew pregnancy could be a result from the sex but he made sure it's practically impossible for her to contact him about it.
Nothing wrong with sleeping around AS LONG AS YOU USE PROTECTION. Which the daughter and her one night stand didn't use, clearly. The daughter needs some education about protection. I hope she doesn't keep the because imo someone that can't handle something as simple as using protection definitely shouldn't take care of a child.
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Damn fine job of parenting! No responsibility. No consequences. Gee, dare I ask if she had been drinking? (Under age?) And, certainly this was the FIRST time she had ever done anything like this. Welcome to 18 years of consequences! But then, it's ALL his fault!
Timon442. You are absolutely inappropriate blaming the parent here. HUGE dbag comment. Dick
People are required to give real numbers and full names to every one night stand they have?
This will be a fun one to explain to the kid when it gets older. Let's be honest here. She chose to participate in the one night stand. She wasn't on the pill and or probably didn't require he wore a condom. He didn't give her his last name but she also didn't ask for it. He might be a dirt bag but so is your daughter.
He's a dirt bag for lying, not for having a one night stand. Contrary to popular, puritanical belief, there's nothing wrong with one night stands as long as it's all consensual.
Damn these comments are fucking brutal. I agree that your daughter is DEFINITELY at fault here for being so irresponsible and just not mature enough to handle sexual situations, but the guy is definitely a shithead. I’m not entirely sure people in the comments are so quick to bend over backwards for his defense. Your daughter shouldn’t have have one night stands and these things won’t happen, but the guy is not a victim. I think a few of these commenters are MGTOWs or stuffed the ‘red pill’ down their gullet. Aka everything is the woman’s fault. I say the two are equally shitty, and you probably have your share in this situation too for not teaching your daughter about being more responsible.
In a world where people are assholes and women can get pregnant everyone needs to take full responsibility for themselves. If that means calling that number right away to make sure it works, being on the pill when sexually active, requiring he wear a condom, providing that condom, it's on her or she's gonna regret it. Of course he's an asshole. But she should have known better.
"everyone needs to take full responsibility for themselves." You say "everyone" and then just list things women have to be responsible for and none for men. lol..