Help this person out, please?

By Anonymous - 14/03/2020 18:00 - Netherlands - Bergeyk

Today, I have no close friends, only "people I know and occasionally talk to." I have no idea how I got here, and how to re-socialize back. FML
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I am in the same boat and it can feel extremely lonely. Here if you want to talk .

You probably don't want to do that in the middle of an epidemic. Just revel in your mastery of "social distance!"

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There is nothing wrong with just having acquaintances. You can do anything - No Strings attached. It's just another day in Paradise without drama.

You probably don't want to do that in the middle of an epidemic. Just revel in your mastery of "social distance!"

I am in the same boat and it can feel extremely lonely. Here if you want to talk .

You start by starting. It’s a good day for a good day!

I know exactly what you mean. Maybe we should create a club? We could resocialize among 'don't have any close friend' people and have big international meetings and a theme song? I'm sensing this post is actually the start of a great adventure! XD Well, if there are a few survivors left in the aftermath of the Corona virus, that is.

You know, you’d be surprised how easy it is to get to that point as an adult. It’s not like you have school, clubs, marching band, whatever your deal was in school, to connect with and meet people. One thing I suggest is going to Meetup Groups. It’s a great way to meet people with similar interests. Look it up. Hiking, board games, wine, pets, whatever, they have categories for whatever you’re into. You’ll get there, OP! 😄

I feel pretty much the same way lol

I got there by choice myself. It's nice to have people you can count on, don't get me wrong. It however, is not great to be expected to constantly put everyone else's needs before your own. Finding the right people to be social with is the key. sometimes that means only being social under a very limited set of circumstances.

I have never related more to an FML on this website until now.

What I did is I became a regular customer at a restaurant. became friends with some of the waitresses and waiters of my age, they've invited me out some places. It's all about creating your opportunity