Crossed wires

By Anonymous - 14/10/2015 12:41 - Canada - Toronto

Today, I got into a minor argument with my fiancé. Deciding it wasn't worth fighting over, I shrugged and said, "Really, what are we even doing this for?" To which he replied, "Honestly, I don't know. I haven't loved you in years… Oh, you meant about the fight." And just like that, I'm now single. FML
I agree, your life sucks 34 241
You deserved it 2 772

Same thing different taste

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whatarethisss 23

It's better you found out he didn't love you now than after you guys were married.

OP, I'm so genuinely sorry. This is awful. I will say though that it's a good thing you found out what kind of person your fiancé really is before you married him. You will find someone eventually who is really the right one for you!

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Don't beat yourself up over it OP, you will move on and find someone better, plenty of fish in the sea

olpally 32

Well then, bye Felicia... What a dick.

Goblin182 26

You deserve this. And I don't mean in a negative way. You deserve to be with someone who does love you, not someone who is just going through the motions because its easier than breaking up.

Why are there some dislikes amongst those who are saying sorry for OP? What happened to her sucked!

"what happened to her" *or him... but agreed! it's just good to know that it happened before the marriage!

bad_boyfriend 10

I have a ton of divorced friends and almost all of them have the same answer when I ask them why they got married, "well we dated for X years and it seemed like the next step" That is an awful reason to get married. Be happy you found this out now OP

Yeah, it's often much easier to get out of a relationship than a marriage. As for your friends I can understand their way of thinking, and I am sure a lot of people do think like that, however awful it actually is. The important thing to remember is that it is better to be single or divorced than with someone who doesn't really love you.

Axel5238 29

Agreed, some feel that you shouldn't wait because "Life his happening now and I'm not getting younger". They want a marriage and possibly family before they are ready for it and justify it with "Well no one's 100% ready for it". It's not healthy to ignore the definite financial issues and if the couple isn't exactly stable taking that big step is definitely not a good idea.

elizacandle 29

Well.....as much as that sucks, op you're better off.

I don't understand why he didn't say anything sooner, it would have caused you less heartbreak ... But at least you didn't have to go through a divorce or such You'll find someone who deserves you OP !

Consider this a blessing in disguise OP