Compromises

By DepressionBetty - 11/10/2021 08:00

Today, I realized I agreed to go to the gym with my fiancé after being on my feet at work all day because he wants to get fit, but he will not help me remodel the house I’m working on so we can have a bigger place to live, because he doesn’t feel like it. I don’t want or need to go to the gym. FML
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1. If you don't want to go to the gym, don't. It's great when someone supports an SO's interests (or supports self improvement), but you're not obligated. 2. Maybe he's comfortable with the space you have. If he's complaining about the lack of space, then absolutely point out it's not going to renovate itself, but if you want more space and he couldn't care less, sorry, the renovation project YOU want is YOUR responsibility. 3. Learn to fucking communicate. You're not 5. Both of you.

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Lolamae 9

Sounds like you don’t need him, either

Your marriage is going to be really great! Really, really great!

1. If you don't want to go to the gym, don't. It's great when someone supports an SO's interests (or supports self improvement), but you're not obligated. 2. Maybe he's comfortable with the space you have. If he's complaining about the lack of space, then absolutely point out it's not going to renovate itself, but if you want more space and he couldn't care less, sorry, the renovation project YOU want is YOUR responsibility. 3. Learn to fucking communicate. You're not 5. Both of you.

phybreawptic 13

I ran out of breath reading that.