Well, there's something she must be doing REAAAALLY well. Any idea what that may be?

Sounds like it! How does he think he's going to keep such a woman who is so far out of his league?

The rude, racist and dropping cigarette ash everywhere is slightly your business unless you are different races and she made a racist remark to you on the racist remark in which case the racist remark is completely your business (my son is dating a someone who posted on Instagram that it’s not about BLM it’s about racism not understanding about BLM and I can’t do anything about it if I don’t want to drive my son away from me. Pick your battles with this woman. Please don’t body shame her to your son. She didn’t pick her weight. Her body Oder may be because the more obese someone is the higher chances she will end up with bacterial infections from diseases such as diabetes. The medications for diabetes can sometimes make people gain a lot of weight. All I am saying is pick your battles wisely or you’ll lose your son to her. I should know.

Too bad I can’t reply under @J_Free_Woods. Finding lame excuses is not the right way. Being racist is a problem no matter what. It shows, among other things, a selfish attitude that does not go well with building a healthy couple. Not to mention the rude and offensive attitude. Being dirty in any means possible also shows how life with that woman will be difficult. And I would be happy if someone dropped ash on my floor. As of being overweight, body shaming is not an option, but if the person has a bad diet, I wouldn’t wish him or her as a partner for someone I care. And yes that woman could be the greatest person, but there are far more chances that OP’s son would be better with someone else.

That right there is what we in the USA refer to as a “Trailer-Park Queen” Don’t get invited over to her place when she cooks, unless you like all your food “Methed up.”