By Anonymous - 29/4/2021 20:30 - United Kingdom - Wokingham

BFF for life

Today, I'd been lonely for a while when I finally met a girl that is genuinely brilliant. She's all huggy, clingy and likes me back. Turns out she's a lesbian, so we can't be anything more. FML
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By  Chazzster  |  20

(1) Did she tell you that she’s a lesbian or was it someone else? Only she knows how she feels about you. Only believe what she says.

(2) Maybe she is bi - meaning she is attracted to both men and women. Again only she can tell you the truth.

(3) She sounds like a good friend to have. Talk to her honestly and listen to what she says. You cannot have too many good friends. If that’s as far as it goes it’s still better than nothing. But do believe her in how she feels about you. Don’t hold out hope of a sexual relationship if there is no chance. Accept her as she is.

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  bleachedraven  |  12

amen!

By  Chazzster  |  20

(1) Did she tell you that she’s a lesbian or was it someone else? Only she knows how she feels about you. Only believe what she says.

(2) Maybe she is bi - meaning she is attracted to both men and women. Again only she can tell you the truth.

(3) She sounds like a good friend to have. Talk to her honestly and listen to what she says. You cannot have too many good friends. If that’s as far as it goes it’s still better than nothing. But do believe her in how she feels about you. Don’t hold out hope of a sexual relationship if there is no chance. Accept her as she is.

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  bleachedraven  |  12

I'd have to agree with all of this

By  bleachedraven  |  12

Not everything has to be romantic or sexual! We all need friends! Consider it a positive, and remember that friendships don't detour from significant others that may come along later.