You're weird for dating your son.

You're lucky that she set the bar so low for you. He only knows horrible women, so you seem ok. Hang on to him as long as you can. Most men like women to have a shred of common decency.

Don't try to make him the bad guy. He's very clearly Not dating his mom. If you do some research on psychology/psychiatry outside of Freud, you'll find a lot of explanation. You are still the bad guy for going through his phone. And also the bad guy for judging him so harshly when as a partner, you should be trying to help create a safe environment. That said, if you want both of you to improve, y'all should both seek therapy. Saying that from a place of empathy and as someone in therapy.

Honestly, I hope he breaks up with you on the account of invading his privacy and trying to shame him for his relationship with his mom. What an asshole move you did.

So still acting like you're the worst then instead of learning from this and not being like his mum.

It's natural, not weird. Have you ever heard about Oedipus complex?

They had us in the first half, not gonna lie

Am I the only one who think the OP is actually the BF of the story?