Just leave, dude. You can't make someone love you when they have made it abundantly clear they're not interested, and life is too short for you to be miserable together.

My guy, why are you still with her, if she clearly isn’t in love with you any more? You’re only going to spiral further and further into a depressive state just til you leave and find someone who does live and appreciate you

Losing 25kg is not so impressive if you started at 200kg. And what is 80K in real money? If she's from a rich family, your earnings are still chump change. Plus, she's probably screwing someone else.

If she treats you so poorly and feels there's nothing to celebrate in the relationship, getting out is the best use of your time. Take your 80k income and set up a life on your own, and maybe down the line you'll find someone to appreciate you.

Dude, she’s putting you down so you will feel like you deserve her abuse. Even without your amazing personal and professional successes, you don’t deserve it.

time to leave her bro. she is the toxic one

And you’ve remained with her why?