Today, my husband told me he's just "not interested" in having sex anymore. FML
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brerj09 13
Ok so I feel like I need to clarify a few things. I'm 21 and my husband is 27. We have been married less than a year. He has gone to the doctor about this before. His testosterone levels are within the normal range but just barely. He doesn't have ED. And it's not that I'm bad in bed... He has a very low sex drive. I have a normal sex drive. If he had his way we'd have sex like once a month. I'm not happy with that. Things were getting better but then he dropped this bomb on me last night. He isn't interesting in having sex and he's doesn't want to do anything to change that. And I'm abnormal because I want to have sex. We are going to be seeing a marriage counselor....
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puppies4life 10
I can't believe that people are saying to leave him. Switch the genders here and it wouldn't even have been featured. Anyway hopefully you guys can sort this out because love is still more important
MedChew 19
This has got to be the blandest FML in a long time. Sorry about his attitude, but I really need more info to pass any judgment here...
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rodreaming 2
My wife has lost all interest, OP, so I have the feelz for ya. It's been over 4 years, with no end in site.
Wisernow 10
OP, there are ways to treat this that may help him feel better in general. If he is on the low side of "normal" he needs another opinion and likely progesterone cream. Progesterone is the building block of our sex hormones so when testosterone is low the progesterone is low too. Both women and men need it to be in balance. If he doesn't try I would question the relationship more deeply. Sorry to be a bummer and I sincerely hope things work out.
mudslutme 11
It's a good thing someone invented self pleasurable items then, huh?