First time shame on me second time shame on you

The third time, fuck the peace sign, get the chopper and let it rain on you - J. Cole

That's not how it goes at all. It's "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on you." Because we don't victim blame here.

People are told that, but they're also told to give people the benefit of the doubt and give second chances. You're lucky if you've never miss-judged someone who's claimed to be your friend, and OP's friends are stupid for messing someone who trusted them around.

#5 Actually we often 'YDI' the victim here, when they've been had before and fall for it again.

#3 not exactly how it goes but close enough

#48 - Yeah I know the proper lyrics but had to follow the style of the initial comment.

I was thinking the same thing. There's a reason you're #1.

I thinks this is a sign not to book trips with her anymore.

your 'friend' is a douche. cease all relationships with her and cut contact immediately

So are you not friends with her friends? Sounds like a vacation you don't want to be on.

What the OP's friend did in this situation is shitty, but I don't think them sharing all of the same friends is a good idea. Lots of people have multiple friend circles that never really interact with each other, and that's not a bad thing. I've definitely hung out/been on trips with total strangers (with a mutual friend present) that were lots of fun.

It's time to get yourself a new friend.

bitch ain't worth being called friend, don't be a doormat let her go.

Forget her- clearly you aren't a priority to her so find someone else who will treat you better

Your friend is either an idiot or doesn't care about you. Either way they shouldn't be booking trips for you.

Soooo...um...why are you still friends with her? She so obviously doesn't want to be friends if this is the second time it's happened... Just sayin.

Since she said you would share a suite and she's backing out, SHE can pay the cost for your room. And after the trip, I would cease contact with this woman. She's no friend.