By Anonymous - 23/07/2018 06:39

Today, it has been eight years since I politely declined a date with a "nice guy." How have I kept track of it this long? He has been stalking and harassing me since then. FML
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ourlastnightlife 6

Hi, OP here! this is my submission lol... I've made police reports but you know how well that goes lmao. He messages me every few months w new profiles. I've moved cities 4 times, changed my number 3 times, changed my name(hi I'm a trans man), changed my email, everything. At the time he first asked me out when I was 15, I was happily in a long term relationship. At the time he threatened to kill my boyfriend and rape me. At one point we were best friends. And I tried to stay his friend after he asked me out. I told him from the very beginning that I was taken. He even had his mum calling me a **** and a ***** and threatening me. And to all y'all saying I should have given him a chance, y'all are on crack lol. He is persistent but his last few messages have been him just harassing me for being trans lol. And no I didn't come out as transgender to get him to back off, I came out as transgender because I am transgender. I'm 23 now and have sworn off relationships for good. This is all hilarious to me now, it's been a while since he actually tried to come at me physically, at this point he is just words on a screen. but I thought this would make a good fml story. And yes I did have to make a new profile to comment. Have a nice day y'all :3

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wanted_2_want 40

Eight years!! Persistent guy, ehh? Can you get a restraining order against him? Or better yet, get a boyfriend who knows martial arts.

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Zachary8261 28

Restraining Order is needed. If he’s been stalking you for 8 years, he’ll never stop without legal intervention.

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wanted_2_want 40

Eight years!! Persistent guy, ehh? Can you get a restraining order against him? Or better yet, get a boyfriend who knows martial arts.

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boopingsnoot 24

Most places won’t issue a restraining order until an assault takes place. Even if the guy broke into her house to write a declaration of murderous intent in his own blood, that’s not enough.

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Zachary8261 28

Restraining Order is needed. If he’s been stalking you for 8 years, he’ll never stop without legal intervention.

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Traveling_Book 9

Unfortunately if he’s been at this for 8 years I seriously doubt a piece of paper is gonna stop him. One of the many pit falls of our justice system.

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ohsnapword 21

"Hello, police? Yeah, this guy has been stalking and harassing me."

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Yudith 24

"Yeah, this is the police. Cool down ma'am, you're being hysterical and just inventing stuff. What do you mean, you're a guy? "

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Luke16eirb7deneuwn1 20

Rrrrrrrrrrrestraining Order!

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ourlastnightlife 6

Hi, OP here! this is my submission lol... I've made police reports but you know how well that goes lmao. He messages me every few months w new profiles. I've moved cities 4 times, changed my number 3 times, changed my name(hi I'm a trans man), changed my email, everything. At the time he first asked me out when I was 15, I was happily in a long term relationship. At the time he threatened to kill my boyfriend and rape me. At one point we were best friends. And I tried to stay his friend after he asked me out. I told him from the very beginning that I was taken. He even had his mum calling me a **** and a ***** and threatening me. And to all y'all saying I should have given him a chance, y'all are on crack lol. He is persistent but his last few messages have been him just harassing me for being trans lol. And no I didn't come out as transgender to get him to back off, I came out as transgender because I am transgender. I'm 23 now and have sworn off relationships for good. This is all hilarious to me now, it's been a while since he actually tried to come at me physically, at this point he is just words on a screen. but I thought this would make a good fml story. And yes I did have to make a new profile to comment. Have a nice day y'all :3

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DanielleinDC 33

Anyone who says to give him a chance is an idiot. You are under no obligation to go out with anyone you don't want to date. I'm sorry you can't shake this guy.

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wanted_2_want 40

Trans man ? Ok then! Get a girlfriend who knows martial arts And. Can. Defend. You.

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DanielleinDC 33

You really need to go to the police and get a restraining order against this guy. How haven't you done that?

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RichardPencil 30

When someone has to say they’re a “nice guy,” they’re not.

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thatslifeiguess7 16

it's like "he has a great personality" as my coworker said when she set me up with my ex hubby. Guess she didn't know he had 5 others

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thatslifeiguess7 16

Get a restraining order and a shot gun

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blahblabbity 19

nice guys only finish last because they keep asking until you die

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acmariner99 25

Restraining order? Something to defend yourself with? If he’s this persistent, you are NOT safe!

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