By millie_marie - 09/08/2016 22:47
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OP here! I felt like I should probably clear a few things up. He's been my best friend since we met first semester of college, and we tell each other everything. Our relationship has ALWAYS been brother/sister, but we went to a late showing of Suicide Squad over the weekend and he slept at my house since it was almost one in the morning when the movie ended. And we both cuddle with the person in bed with us, and I realized I must have been catching feelings for a while because I really wanted more than that. He's interested in someone else (again, we tell each other everything), so I know nothing's going to come of that. As for my coworker, someone said to let him know what he's doing is harassment, but he and I joke with each other all the time. We work at a place where if we all don't joke around and make fun of each other, we'd go crazy trying to stay sane. He is an ass, but he'll stop eventually. It's just that it stings a bit now because he wasted no time when in the past he's waited until I'm out of my bad mood about the situation. Thanks for the support and jokes, guys. It made me feel a bit better (:
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his view of you might make things awkward and such but I suggest gping after him anyway, who cares what others think or say.
OP, your coworker is an ass and is desensitized to your situation. Don't feel bad or embarrassed. I've been friend zoned and it hurts, but you can either move on or you can get what you want, with some work of course. Just be careful as that could easily ruin a friendship. Is it worth the risk?
The term 'friend zoned' is silly though, it's not like he deliberately decided not to be attracted to her just to stop her getting in a relationship with him. It sounds like it's a good thing that she has a friend who feels so close and protective of her, why make that sound like a bad thing?
Getting freind-zoned by a guy means he has someone else in mind he thinks is better. The way to undo it is to show how awesome you really are! 1) Do awesome sHIT 2) Post pictures of that shit on FB 3) Get noticed (by him or someone else who's worth your time :P) 4) PROFIT!!