By Anonymous - 13/11/2009 01:54 - United States
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I agree, I hope you're filing as we speak here. I could play devil's advocate and say "You knew what kind of person he was when you married him" but I think a situation like this just calls for what I said first. If you're willing, end it now or be prepared for things like this to happen for the rest of your life.
I think divorce may be a bit harsh. Perhaps the husband did not truly understand the importance of both the procedure and the need for him to be with her... not to defend him or anything, not necessarily a good thing that he's ignorant enough not to realize (if this is the case)