By Anonymous - 16/09/2014 20:31 - United Kingdom - Truro
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#10: It's impossible to please "everyone". People called me annoying, and so I tried changing for them. It made me miserable, and they hated me even more. You can't win. The most important thing one can do is be happy with oneself. Don't change just to please people.
Maybe you shouldn't change yourself, but at the same time everyone has annoying traits that could probably be toned down. If you like these people and really are friends with them, you could ask them what it is that annoys them and try toning it down a bit if you want. Remember how Ross (from Friends) corrected everyone's grammar all the time, he knew it bugged his friends and tried to tone it down. Don't change everything about yourself but changes a few things never hurt anything.
Well I've seen firsthand how some girls are jealous of another girl and they think the girl is annoying because of it. We can't say for sure though. & some people say I'm annoying because I am laidback and won't do everything they do, so they call me boring and annoying, and I being smart forget about their negativity.
You don't even know this person. An it's sad that people can be such aholes. He shouldn't change for anyone. He should continue to be himself. I bet he's an amazing person once you get to know him. Honestly I'm a pretty off person most people steamed clear of me my whole school life minus high school. Once you get to know me though I'm really fun to be around. I'm a sarcastic person who likes to crack jokes about the truth so it's not as rough when you hear it.
Who cares what "everyone else" says anyway. hopefully you have a new friend out of it :)