By shandrith - 03/07/2009 14:16 - United States

Today, I found out that my boyfriend is cheating on me, with the same guy I was cheating on him with. FML
I agree, your life sucks 229
You deserved it 873

shandrith tells us more.

Hi, I'm the one that posted this FML. I know that cheating wasn't a good thing to do, but that wasn't the point of the FML. Had I simply found out that he was cheating with someone else, of either gender as I knew that he was bi when we entered the relationship, I would have said nothing. The reason I posted it, and the reason I do consider it to be an FML is because of the absolute ridiculousness of the fact that we were cheating with the SAME PERSON!!! The three of us have spoken and decided that none of us are going to continue seeing each other. The BF and I were obviously both deeply unhappy, and the third part took advantage of both of us. Ex and I will probably remain friends, and chalk this up to one of those errors in life that are hilarious five years later, but hurt like hell when they happen. #3 can go to hell for all I care


HAHAHA. You both deserve each other. Just stay in the relationship. You seem to need the help.

curryndricegirll 0

Chances are, he's not really cheating on you. He's probably just trying to get back at you for cheating on him.

I'm gonna be a retard and reply to the first comment so my comment is higher up on the page. Man, that sucks. FYL

Wow that sucks hahah maybe you guys would be better off staying in the relationsthip and goign all 3 ways and jsut ******* around with all 3 of em ;)

baby_love 0

you deserve it you cheating bitch

That's neither a FYL or YDI... that's just ******. @_@

ElliexMarie 0

why would a hetero man try to get back at his girlfriend by getting with a guy?

Youre a bitch. YDI for cheating in the first place.

that sucks :/ FYL but ydi for dating two gay guys

whats really ironic is this exact thing happened recently in hollyoaks (british soap)

Shadow_Phantom 26

What scares me is the username looks like a combination of my mom's first and last name. My mom and I live in California. O_O

just do both of them. they are clearly bi two for the price of one

notonpurpose 0

Ever hear of the word "bisexual?"

u deserve it. if u don't give any honesty, don't expect it in return

Dunebuggy569 5

Maybe you could have a threesome?

amazinggbaby 2

Yeah that's pretty twisted. Idk whether to say fyl or ydi hahah

that is why I think most FML's are fake

I think they have a word for times like this...

what's even more sickening is that she turned two guys GAY lol

wow. That guy must be on hell of a player

ilpissoffahappym 0

thats what i call a love triangle

It is a good deal. Everyone is #winning#.

Masonator28 9

Your a conceded ***** bitch I can't even stress that enough

Why did you automatically assume that he is Hetero? If he is cheating on her with a man he is either gay and the relationship is fake with his gf or he is bisexual sorry about the rambling XD.

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IF you look under the FML it CLEARLY says: On 07/03/2009 at 7:16am - misc - by shandrith (woman) - United States (California) Learn to read.

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NGM_47 0

Wow!! #23 must be a genius or something -_- BTW OP, it sucks, but you cheated on him YDI and FYL!

He's not necessarily gay, he could be bi. (But in this case I HIGHLY doubt it). But she still deserves it for cheating. But they both are disgusting people who deserve whatever bad thing is coming to them.

mylittlecrow 0

He's not necessarily gay, maybe bi?

who reads the small print.............ydi so just enjoy yourself,and hopefully they will enjoy you too

and the guy she is hooking up with is gay, or they are both bi, I agreethat this isn't an FYL or YDI

bisexual guys are just gays who are afraid to admit they're fully gay.

FrankieTheNimrod 0
z411811 0

ok Sorry but i was on an ipod and it does not say it in the app. So next time you leave a comment dont judge.

stephanye 0

@178: I believe in the Kinsey scale instead =P. I don't think it's so cut and dry. Either that or bisexual people are just people who are just plain old horny enough to do anyone.

It's cool that it ended up okay in the end... Like you said, it sucks now but you two will laugh about it later as you remember how ridiculous it was. :)

Well that's quite a mature way to go about it considering how dumb it was to occur int he first place. Bravo for not continuing to be a douche bag like so many of the judgmental wankers on here.

Kinsey FTW. I would be about a 1.5 on the Kinsey, since I'm a guy who definitely likes girls, and thinks some guys are hot, but can't quite imagine getting himself in a relationship with a guy, and I won't have sex outside of a relationship. In terms of fantasies, I'm fine with guys, and a threesome seems weird to me, but not because of the sexuality.

doesn't necessarily have to be gay. he could be bi

amazinggbaby 2

178 Why would someone say they're bisexual if they're just gay? either way they are men who like other men. Bisexual men obviously like girls too because saying your bi doesn't make it sound any better than being gay.

178, you're an ignorant ****, no, no we're not, we're just guys who like **** and pussy

I love how the illustrator had the same idea I had all the way back in comment 15.

Either you suck d&$k or you don't. No such thing as bi.

Yo be quite about bisexuals being fully gay! If they werent bi they'd be gay not bi! Obviously they like men & women not just the same sex... Idiots

leilaostara 1

219, I'm on a iPod too and it has the little gender sign in the corner so stop bullshitting.

I'm pretty sure it's a dude, or it's a chick that was dating a bi-sexual

BFMV1225 7

I have an ipod too and i can see it clear as day.

grovervac3000 15

Yes it does!!! I use the app all the time and it always does.

The guy could be bisexual, because yeah, it does exist. I'm suprised that no one mentioned the option that OP's boyfriend was just experimenting. He might just have been curious, the FML does not say if he was cheating on a regular base, he could have just tried being with a guy once, for the experience...

deepunder 17

The most likely scenario is both guys are bi, or ,gay and the girl is just manly. There may be a double experiment but its unlikely.

You are an ass, ydi for being a cheater, cheaters in my mind are some of the worst people

agree. Only bad things come from cheating.

I came from cheating. Who are you to judge me?

#238, #4 never said that cheaters are the worst people, they said SOME of the worst people. Who the hell would classify a cheater worse than a murderer?

Her boyfriend was cheating too, so everyone is wrong. She dont have to be a bad person. However, she'll be on her way to being one if she doesnt learn her lesson. How messed up is the guy that was doing them both..... He's the one that knew it all, prob got a kick out of it and wanted you all to get together lol

@120 I lol'd. Sorry it's probably not meant to be funny.

wow. that is wrong. FYL indeed. but u cheated on him so YDI

OP, I don't know why you're posting an FML because you were cheating also. Shame on you.

I think bi-sexual means by the way you're gay >:D

Bisexual means they like both males and females.

69_jackson_69 0

I think the Earth MAY just be... a CIRCLE. *gasp*


WRONG! It's a square! Learn to research on Wikipedia dude.

SimoneDymond 3

Actually it's a sphere... ^_^


This isn't really an FML. You cheated on your boyfriend, and he cheated on you. Seems like the guy you both cheated with pwned you both.

That's exactly what I was thinking!! I was like oh man that guy is AWESOME!! Ha ha.

brrrx 0

Hahahaha, thank you for giving me the best FML I've read in a long time. That is sort of a FYL, sort of a YDI. Cheaters get what's coming to them...hahahaha