By i have failed so very badly - 07/04/2017 18:51 - United States - Syracuse

Today, I found out our eight-year-old son lied about his former babysitter beating him. The babysitter's already thrashed us on social media for believing our son, and now no one in town is willing to babysit for us. Looks like date night is cancelled. FML
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TeacherTeacher 11

This makes a great teaching moment. Make sure your child understands the gravity of what he did and apologize to the babysitter. You should also find out why he lied. Does he want more time with you? Does he not like the babysitter because she enforces rules? A nice reading of The Boy Who Cried Wolf might be in order too. Careers have been ruined this way.

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Viewerv 2

Parents are in an impossible situation. Kids do lie and lives have been ruined when kids lied. This babysitter could have been in jail over this kids lies. I wouldn't babysit this kid again either. However, if parents don't believe kids, that can cause issues to. So many kids were abused and were not protected by parents who didn't believe them. It's a no win situation!

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ShinnamonBun 7

True but kids can be mischievous so OP probably should've made at least an attempt at getting proof

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Viewerv 2

Parents are in an impossible situation. Kids do lie and lives have been ruined when kids lied. This babysitter could have been in jail over this kids lies. I wouldn't babysit this kid again either. However, if parents don't believe kids, that can cause issues to. So many kids were abused and were not protected by parents who didn't believe them. It's a no win situation!

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Alexandria79 22

I babysat 3 kids down the road. the 3 yr old took a kiddie golf club and started beating her brother so I took it away. she told her mum that I beat her with it. I nearly cried. I asked the brothers to tell what happened and they laughed. the parents said nothing and asked me back a week later.

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TeacherTeacher 11

This makes a great teaching moment. Make sure your child understands the gravity of what he did and apologize to the babysitter. You should also find out why he lied. Does he want more time with you? Does he not like the babysitter because she enforces rules? A nice reading of The Boy Who Cried Wolf might be in order too. Careers have been ruined this way.

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Kurliez408 32

following up on that maybe have your kid (with you) apologize to the babysitter? great teaching moment, she deserves it and maybe she'll agree to correcting her mistakes as well.

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mariri9206 32

Kurliez, they mentioned apologizing to the babysitter

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Moerighan 23

Careers and lives, especially if a touching comment is thrown in.

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carlosbsi70 1

That sounds like a great time to a deserved spanking and real consequences about lying, because a book reading is not going to change the fact the little monster lied. In your eyes teacher teacher the best thing is price the kid for that behavior, that will not help , look around you and see how many poor kid are entitle to do whatever they want for nothing.

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sophiehelen 32

lives have been ruined this way unfortunately, not just careers

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Charlie Coffman 14

make a "public" apology, and make sure it's heartfelt and seen, then maybe you'll have a chance

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mouth666 6

a whole huge generation of cry babies and do gooders.. this is all of the parents. believed there was a beating? how does a 8 year old fake a real ass whooping for being bad itch? should have been clear the kids a spoiled lying shit

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foxesntea 22

My mom's friend's sons would actually start beating themselves and then call social services on her claiming she beats them. Some kids are truly terrible.

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goodread2200 10

If missing out on date night is what you're taking from this then maybe it's a good thing you now need to spend more time with your son.

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acmariner99 25

Of course your first instinct is to protect your kid. But you should do some basic investigating like checking for bruises or taking him to a doctor. Kids can do some cruel stuff to get out of things.

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Bearsmomma 30

It would depend on the timing of telling. There wouldn't be visible bruising if the kid was telling something from the past.

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Emmereen 29

OP, you were in the right to take your child's allegations seriously. I certainly wouldn't expect a young kid to lie about something this serious. Now that the truth is out, I would look into why your son told this story and take steps to apologize to the sitter.

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Viewerv 2

O.o I hope you don't have mischievous kids because kids can be manipulative psychopaths who don't have enough empathy or knowledge to understand full relocations of their lies. All they see is the immediate benefit to themselves. So yes, kids do lie about serious stuff like abuse!

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HylianBadger 21

Sometimes parents need time away from their children, and date night is a good opportunity not only to get a way for a bit, but spend quality time with your significant other. He probably gets enough attention, but he feels they need to be around 24/7 regardless. Kids can be really selfish at times.

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ElizaWy 25

Your son made a false accusation of child-abuse to get his way (they usually tell the sitter 'do this or else' when this happens) and your main worry is your date-night? Your priorities are seriously screwed up.

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TheyCallMeDamien 17

Making him publicly apologize. He attempted to besmirch someone's name. This reaction is one of the reasons we have a serious teacher shortage. Always try to verify. And is this really the first time he's has lied?

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