Today, I found out my boyfriend regularly has his ex stay over. They even share a bed. He doesn't see a problem with this. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, my boyfriend posted pictures of him at the bar last night with his ex. And ones of them in her bed this morning. I guess we're sleeping with other people? FML
Today, I found out that my boyfriend of 7 years has been communicating extensively with his ex, who lives out of state, for over 6 months. She booked flights and a hotel nearby in a month and invited him. He didn't say no. FML
Today, I just found out that my current boyfriend and my ex-boyfriend are rooming together at college. Visits are going to be extremely awkward. FML
Today, it's now the third week my boyfriend's best friend has been sleeping on our bedroom floor because he doesn't want to face the consequences of his actions back at his parents' place. My boyfriend sees no problem with this, and says he can stay and live off us as long as he wants. FML
Today, I found out why my boyfriend of over a year is so obsessed with cleaning his entire place before I come over. He's been hiding the ex-girlfriend who never moved out. FML
Today, I found out that my new roommate is dating my ex-boyfriend. FML
Today, I found out my boyfriend added his ex on Facebook and Instagram, all within a few days. Lucky me. FML
Today, my boyfriend came over. My mom told him the story about the time she caught me having sex with my ex-boyfriend. My ex is his best friend. FML
Today, I found out my boyfriend's mom still refers to his ex as 'the daughter she never had.' FML
Today, my boyfriend informed me that since he's doing a project with a girl in his class and carpooling with her in the morning, she'll be sleeping over at his house. FML
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Cartera 10
Relax. They just talk about cute boys and gossip about girls they don't like.
lincolnick4 19
Then there shouldn't be a problem dumping him. You deserve better OP.
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Comments (105)
punkyboy 11
if you broke up with him and made him your ex-boyfriend he would invite you over for sleepovers too
AshleyScruggs 14
Your boyfriend is a pig, OP. It I were you, I would leave him. Otherwise you will always wonder if she's there and what they're doing.
redwolf56 2
You kinda look like a pig
cieloalicia 16
Which is why you don't even have a photo, right? I think she is cute. :)
geekpower_fml 28
Some of the comments on this thread... What?! My boyfriend isn't allowed to share a bed with any woman besides me, be it in a sexual manner or not! You guys need to talk.
Myo_fml 20
Maybe they're just thunder buddies.
ashmed 4
Does people here make a set of rules for the boy/girlfriends? "This is what you can and can't do". I would never ever be with someone who did that. What OP should do, it's tell him it makes her uncomfortable. Hopefully he'll stop doing it, but she shouldn't dump him or tell him what to do.
nystev 13
People don't seem to forgive much and are ready to drop someone at the smallest step out of line... but I admit that if he *is* cheating (and not just sleeping in the same bed), then he's not worth her time.
TheMathMajor 26
Maybe it's because I've been cheated on before, but I would have major issues with that, especially because he didn't tell her at all and ask if she was comfortable with it when they started dating. That's just a really big red flag for me and suggests that he was hiding it from her. You have to be completely honest about these things.
ashmed 4
Yeah of course. I've been cheated on before aswell, but I wont let that ruin my current relasionship. OP and her boyfriend needs to talk together, that's all
CharresBarkrey 16
99 nailed it on the head. People who let their past cheating experiences affect their current relationships will never have a healthy successful relationship.
TheMathMajor 26
I completely trust my current boyfriend, but my experience with my ex has taught me not to be naive and to see the signs before you really get hurt. I'm not saying don't trust the person you're with, but if they keep something like this from you I would be very wary. You can't just expect everyone to feel comfortable with something like that, and you should have enough respect for your SO to talk to them about it when you start dating.
BanAnnalee 12
You need to take out the trash.
AshleyScruggs 14
Her boyfriend or the trashy ***** sleeping in his bed?
VanillaButterfly 14
Why not both? *cue Mexican music*
JennNoVa 8
Dump his ass. He's not worth your time.
maria05136 16
OMG I'm so sorry you had to go through that :(
mkid232 15
Could be worse: He could be sharing a bed with one of your exes.
RatchedRN 3
Maybe he should be your ex boyfriends. This is blatant disrespect.
vivianaalicia 5
Dump him immediately please. -_-