Today, I came out to my parents as trans. They immediately took my remaining college savings, canceled my credit card, and began plotting to abduct me and "wean me off hormones, like a heroin addict." FML
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Thanksgiving
Questions about your love life, a burnt turkey and the cousin who knows everything: Thanksgiving, a contact sport.
Same thing different taste
Today, I came out to my therapist as gay. Claiming that my parents "can't be that homophobic", my therapist outed me to them. They kicked me out of the house. FML
The real me
Today, I finally told my parents I'm trans. My dad started crying and told me he loved me no matter what. My mother threw a chair at me, and told my dad it was his "wife-like" behaviour that made me this way. She then prayed out loud for an hour for God to send her a real husband and son. FML
Today, I came out as transgender to my extremely accepting and religious family over Facebook. My feed is currently flooded with plans for my exorcism. FML
Follow the lifescript
Today, I came out to my parents as lesbian. Surprisingly, they were OK with it… just as long as I still marry a dude, give them grandbabies, and keep the whole lesbian thing a deep, dark, shameful secret that we never talk about again. FML
Today, I came out to my parents. They laughed in my face. FML
Acceptance
Today, I'm a closeted trans man, and I feel terrible every time my family calls me "she" or "girl". Help me, I don't know how to come out. FML
Today, I came out to my parents. They still think I'm joking. FML
Not today, Satan
Today, I briefly considered coming out to my parents when the topic of LGBTQ+ people came up in conversation, until my dad called them “socially deranged.” FML
Today, I finally decided to tell my parents I was a lesbian. They spent the next few hours reading me the bible. FML
Snitch
Today, my girlfriend trusted me enough to tell me that she's trans. I have no problem with this, the problem is my sister overheard her. She ran and told our parents, who are also our landlords, so now either I dump the woman I love or we'll both be homeless. FML
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Donut_Wizard 23
How dare they do that. I will use my donut magic to make them shit out stale, rock hard tabasco donuts for a month.
ChakatBlackstar 29
Wait...how do you condone or not condone gender dysphoria? That's like saying you approve or don't approve of clinical depression or being color blind or something. It exists, end of story. I mean, at best you can say you believe in it or not, but you can't really condone or not condone it.
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EarthsMightiestHeroes 20
My friend went through somewhat of a similar fate, but they had to pack up and leave home entirely at age 17. They had a hard time for a while, but they are doing okay now and ended up graduating High school early! I have faith in you, I bet you'll do great.
electrodude 15
I’m not trying to be funny but run get out of there and run and congratulations for coming out trans I know it’s hard to come out
The_candyman 13
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If they are still providing for you they have the right and obligation to do it if they believe its whats best for you. You should see someone for mental help
Mathalamus 25
It's not right for them to do this.
interesting33 37
some of these comments are disgusting. It is 2018, how are we still tellingt people who are transgender deserve this abuse? Whether you understand gender dysphoria or whatever your views, people who are transgender are PEOPLE! Deserving of human rights such as a right to education and not to be forced into inhumane nonconsensual"treatments". how can you be saying things like 'you need shock therapy?' where is your humanity? Someone is telling us of an awful situation. Why are we not condemning the way they are being treated, regardless of your views on gender dysphoria!?
ARISKomuniszt 24
Well said.
hiddenUSERNAME 27
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your parents have the right to cancel your college savings as it is their money to begin with. as for the cards if they are supporting you again they have the right to stop. And you do need help if you honestly think self-mutilation and hormone 'therapy' is a solution to a mental condition
AzrielB 8
unless your parents are super liberal, this is why you should feel them out first, maybe talk at the dinner table about a trans friend
ARISKomuniszt 24
"Super Liberal"? Don't you mean "Decent humans"?
notlisapizza 3
wow I had no idea the commenters here were so ignorant/transphobic. if you're in college, you should check out some resources they probably have for support (LGBT organizations) and see about any student legal services in case your parents do try and interfere with hormone treatments (in case you're using their insurance or something like that). unfortunately if the credit card and college money we're in their name they have every legal right to take it away. I'm just writing this comment so you understand that there are people and organizations who will support you and your transition, you just have to look.
DanielleinDC 34
I'm so sorry, OP. I hope you can find resources to help you transition and make a life for yourself--apparently without your parents.
Suaria 38
Some of these comments are sickening, some even go as far as death threats (I'm looking at gh0strec0n). Unless the parents send OP to conversion therapy (which is not at all effective), the vast majority of psychologists/doctors/psychiatrists would recommend transitioning. So to all the people who say to get help, most medical professionals would say transitioning and being treated as a person would be the best therapy for OP. At least research or talk to medical professionals before you sound ignorant.
ARISKomuniszt 24
In the 40s, post-war, Jean-Paul Sartre wrote that the so-called "Jewish question" should be on the actions of the anti-Semites and not the Jews themselves. I feel that, hopefully, the same shall occur on the "transgender question." It should not be a question on whether one can be transgender - that will be a given - but on how to stamp out transphobia. I'm seriously disappointed that so many within the FML community wish to be on the wrong side of history. Moving on, to be transgender is a completely natural regularity. Gender is after all solely an identity - and who are they harming by choosing their own personal identity themselves? There is nothing biologically relating gender to genitalia, as those determine one's sex, not one's gender. As for transsexualism, it doesn't hurt anyone and actually is a positive lifestyle choice for many transgender people. There is no legitimate reason to oppose it (unless you're a Christian fundamentalist, in which case, why would God have given you the power to perform such if he wanted it not to be used?). And, finally. OP. I am completely appalled by the actions of your parents and I wish things can get better in future! If you have a sibling, maybe go through them as a means of bringing them to reason if you can.
The_candyman 13
this has to be a troll good job.. comparing it to the Holocaust. wow and I think your right you should be able to do what ever you want to your body (only yours) not your kids. just don't require stuff from other people. o wait they are already doing that, in some states companies can get fined for using the wrong gender. some place you call someone a ****** and they cry or yell back at you but if you call them sir they sue you. YEAH TRANSGENDER IS THE RIGHT WAY.
Suaria 38
Well I think it is only logical that if you're yelling slurs at people, they will yell back at you.
The_candyman 13
Good to see more people on the same page
ARISKomuniszt 24
I was not comparing it to the Holocaust...
The_candyman 13
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"Jewish question" in the 40's vs "transgender question" today so yeah you did. and to say transgender is just something people need to get used to. how many transgender people have been killed by people who hate them? (I honestly don't know) I'm speaking from the way things are going in United States and people are making laws requiring peopke to be more PC. If I heard correctly people in other countries are also getting punished by law for using the wrong gender pronoun. transgender crap is ruining the world. people are taking steroids and competing in sports. teams are putting men on women teams and saying they are just transgender how is that fair? teams are divide by sex for a reason (I don't agree with)