Time for a change

By Anonymous - 15/05/2023 06:00

Today, I found out that my boyfriend has been cheating on me our entire relationship, texting and messaging on social media asking to have relations with multiple women. I just moved to a new city with him, consolidated most of my big items, and we are supposed to move into our new apartment in 4 days. I don't know what to do. FML
I agree, your life sucks 971
You deserved it 130

Same thing different taste

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It's not going to be a popular opinion but you can't just implode everything in a strange city and expect it to work out. For now, you continue to go through with the plan, once you have settled, caught your breath and can afford a place of your own, here or back home, you move out and don't look back. I know you just want OUT but you need somewhere safe, secure and comfortable to go to. If you have family, stay long enough to arrange, and get, all your things into storage so he can't muck around with holding your stuff hostage or any dumb stuff like that. Just hold it together long enough to sort yourself a safe, soft landing and then bail. Clean, cold, complete cut off. If you can manage it then don't let him know until the day he comes back and you are just Gone, I'd just leave the printed out evidence spread across the bed as explanation and never have a single thing to do with him after that. Sorry that your life sucks but look after yourself first. 🫂

Either you are alright with him cheating on you your whole life and you stay, or you leave. You DO know what you should do.

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Either you are alright with him cheating on you your whole life and you stay, or you leave. You DO know what you should do.

It's not going to be a popular opinion but you can't just implode everything in a strange city and expect it to work out. For now, you continue to go through with the plan, once you have settled, caught your breath and can afford a place of your own, here or back home, you move out and don't look back. I know you just want OUT but you need somewhere safe, secure and comfortable to go to. If you have family, stay long enough to arrange, and get, all your things into storage so he can't muck around with holding your stuff hostage or any dumb stuff like that. Just hold it together long enough to sort yourself a safe, soft landing and then bail. Clean, cold, complete cut off. If you can manage it then don't let him know until the day he comes back and you are just Gone, I'd just leave the printed out evidence spread across the bed as explanation and never have a single thing to do with him after that. Sorry that your life sucks but look after yourself first. 🫂

But please, do protect yourself (mentally, physically and sexually - beware STD)

Get a bigger apartment to handle the overflow?

He'll isolate you even more if you do move in.