By Anonymous - 7/11/2020 06:31 - India

The one with the asshole friend

Today, after going through a surgery related to my ovaries, having a life-threatening complication during the surgery due to anesthesia, my doctor warning me about future infertility, a friend tells me that no one will marry me now, since I have stretch marks and stitches marks on my abdomen. FML
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By  coius  |  20

Nonsense. If you got a good personality, or make a half-hearted attempt at showing a caring attitude, i’m sure you’ll be a catch. Many men don’t conform to the stereotypical portrayal that they only marry for looks. In every culture, there is at least someone that looks right at the heart. And I encourage you not to give up if you want to seek a mate.

I’ve done weddings as video/photo in the states for india/pakistani and I can tell you, if looks was all they cared for, then my eyes must be seeing things. I saw many people marry, and the glow in their eyes is visible when they are in love. And no, not all the men, nor women were lookers. But you could tell they loved each other for their heart, not an idealized look. Getting older and being married to the same person proves that theory. No one retains youthful looks forever, otherwise we wouldn’t see beautiful people stay that way (a lot of them look like train wrecks after 20 years yet are happily married). And I wouldn’t say I’m a looker, but then again, my wife didnt marry me for my looks (or money for that fact), but for my personality.

By  Chazzster  |  20

My wife had to have a hysterectomy in her 30’s. The scars heal. Not everyone wants children and if you and your future husband do want kids you can adopt if you are unable to become pregnant. I love my wife very much, her previous medical history was unimportant to me. You can get through this, your “friend” is a tactless idiot.

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By  coius  |  20

Nonsense. If you got a good personality, or make a half-hearted attempt at showing a caring attitude, i’m sure you’ll be a catch. Many men don’t conform to the stereotypical portrayal that they only marry for looks. In every culture, there is at least someone that looks right at the heart. And I encourage you not to give up if you want to seek a mate.

I’ve done weddings as video/photo in the states for india/pakistani and I can tell you, if looks was all they cared for, then my eyes must be seeing things. I saw many people marry, and the glow in their eyes is visible when they are in love. And no, not all the men, nor women were lookers. But you could tell they loved each other for their heart, not an idealized look. Getting older and being married to the same person proves that theory. No one retains youthful looks forever, otherwise we wouldn’t see beautiful people stay that way (a lot of them look like train wrecks after 20 years yet are happily married). And I wouldn’t say I’m a looker, but then again, my wife didnt marry me for my looks (or money for that fact), but for my personality.

By  Chazzster  |  20

My wife had to have a hysterectomy in her 30’s. The scars heal. Not everyone wants children and if you and your future husband do want kids you can adopt if you are unable to become pregnant. I love my wife very much, her previous medical history was unimportant to me. You can get through this, your “friend” is a tactless idiot.

By  xxlk4xx  |  2

first of all, I think you need to just drop that "friend" second, stretch Mark's and scars wont matter to the right person! I have lots of stretch marks and my fiance gives zero fucks about them lol! also my friend just adopted a baby from Ukraine, and apparently there are sooo many babies and children there who need parents, they're literally sitting in those orphanages in their cribs or beds all day with no interaction or affection what so ever! I'm not sure how expensive the whole process is to adopt but one day in the future if you find yourself wanting to adopt, please look into adopting a baby/child from Ukraine!