By Anonymous - 17/11/2020 14:01
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yeah I probably would have just left them lol, but that's still nice of you for trying to do something nice for your dad! I would just be honest with your mom and tell her what you were doing if you havnt already! your dad would probably thank you for saving his dignity if he could lol. but also therapy isn't a bad thing even if you're doing ok! you're never too old or young to learn new shit about yourself 😊
So...because they were in your dad's closet, you're positive your mom knew nothing about them? I understand not wanting to tarnish your dad's memory, but still. Mom may have known, even indulged with him but could be in denial or is suggesting therapy because she doesn't want you to know about their intimate details. You should have just left it alone.
OP, just tell Mom the truth. While she may not want to hear it, she ultimately needs to know the truth about how you came to have the material instead of thinking her husband is dead and her son is disturbed. In the future, if you want to discard or get rid of something put it in a trash bag with other trash and that into the rubbish bin - Don’t keep it around to be found later. And truthfully, were you planning on studying dad’s porn later?