Is it just me or…?

By Anonymous - 15/07/2024 05:00 - United Kingdom - Hornsey

Today, after I ghosted a good friend for 6 months due to mental health issues/dropping out/other life changes, it's been a week since I got back in contact, and I think she hates me now. I stalk her on social media sometimes on my laptop and she made a playlist called "What the F*** are you doing?" like 3 days ago. FML
I agree, your life sucks 85
You deserved it 707

Same thing different taste

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Have you actually apologized? Maybe have a heart-to-heart with her. Oh, and don't ghost people. It is one of the cruelest things you can do to a person. Spending 5 seconds to tell them why you need to b alone for a bit will save them months of heartache.

You ghosted them. YDI. Now they are ghosting you, and you sound like a stalker with a mental problem. Honestly, get some help! And move on.

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Have you actually apologized? Maybe have a heart-to-heart with her. Oh, and don't ghost people. It is one of the cruelest things you can do to a person. Spending 5 seconds to tell them why you need to b alone for a bit will save them months of heartache.

You ghosted them. YDI. Now they are ghosting you, and you sound like a stalker with a mental problem. Honestly, get some help! And move on.

Yeah, best to be vulnerable and tell them why you needed the space. It might not be possible for you to make promises but they might want reassurance that you won’t drop them again like this in the future. It’s difficult for them to not take it personally…