FyourFriends life. Your dietary restrictions do not apply to them. Maybe stop being so dramatic and live your life to best of your criteria, but others can give you supportive shoulder but under no circumstances should they change their choices just because of you. Your diabetes is your responsibility, they just need to make sure they take care of their health. My partner is teetotal, his friends drink. I drink. My brother with cerebral palsy, and my niece whose cholesterol was so bad she had to become vegan for life both participate in dinner parties and life without restricting others. You know it's hard, why would you want Your Friends to be restricted, just to support you? Okay, what if one of them has a child, for support will you have one? What if it's cancer instead of diabetes, you will wish them cancer or the horrific chemotherapy treatment just to make yourself feel better. People who have restrictions on their lifestyle.dp not get to dictate others choices. If I drink, then my friend who is recovering alcoholic is not my responsibility, she will have to make her excuses and not come out, or not drink. But it won't apply to me, and she cannot be offended of my choices. We have one single life to live, live the way you want, and who the hell are you to dictate others people decisions? Your Friend asked one important question are YOU responsible, but in her case she isn't irresponsible for having second pint because she probably doesn't have diabetes. Nobody in this life has to live to please others. You're 30, time to grow up and take care of your own life regardless of what others do, you can only change your life.

If you dislike your friends because you have diabetes, then the terrible "friend" is you. Their only responsibility is to get help if you have a related medical issue. Why should she not enjoy a second beer because YOU have a medical problem? FHerLife

Even assuming that you're upset at your friend because they ignored you after asking one question and not because you felt that she should have not had a drink out of solidarity, she did ask about you. If you wanted to talk more about the subject I don't see any sign she shut you down. Presumably, she was just trying to act as if nothing had changed between you.