Oof. Feel bad for him (I’m opposite and too big for my wife). But still, I’d think he’d understand that they call them “marital aides” for a reason. They get used for all sorts of things. For my wife, it makes sex a lot easier as she loosens up after the first ****** making it a lot easier to do more. It’s just how it is in some relationships.

And before anyone thinks I’m bragging, too big can also be an issue. It causes some discomfort and even tearing each time. Just like the size of the penis varies, so too does the ******. Yeah, there’s some give and play, but even the ****** has limits on width and length. The world record holder for male size is enormous, and so much so, he can’t be intimate with ANYONE. So size doesn’t matter as much if you are within a normal 95% percentile range, but outside of it, it can cause just as much issues. Plus my back injuries and pain plays a bigger issue in my sex life than size, especially since I’m currently the only one who works and it can get physically demanding, even after the back surgeries, it still leaves me in a fair bit of spinal pain frequently enough to be a problem.