Happy Birthday

By Anonymous - 06/02/2022 00:00 - United States - New York

Today, I heard my fiancé tell his friend that he's working on Sunday. Which is my birthday. The birthday I don't even get a party for because of Covid. My only plan was to be with him and my BFF. He says he didn't think to take the day off, and now there's "probably not enough time to get coverage." He's the manager. FML
I agree, your life sucks 881
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Same thing different taste

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the fact that he's the manager will make it even harder for him to get coverage. he probably didn't think to take off not because he doesn't care about you but because many adults don't bother with their birthday so he didn't even think about it

kitten79TX 5

Never expect your partner to be a mind reader. If you didn't tell him you wanted him to take the day off, you can't expect him to KNOW you wanted him to take the day off. Stop pouting and make birthday plans for his day off... but TELL HIM. In the meantime, have a girls' day with your friend.

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sleepymom1234 7

you probably should have given him a heads up as to what you wanted. I'm sure he isn't a mind reader. I'm sure he would have taken the day off had you only asked him to. 🙄

the fact that he's the manager will make it even harder for him to get coverage. he probably didn't think to take off not because he doesn't care about you but because many adults don't bother with their birthday so he didn't even think about it

kitten79TX 5

Exactly. Getting coverage as a Manger is WAY harder than it is for a regular employee, as there are usually certain responsibilities that only a manager is authorized to perform, and there are fewer of them.

kitten79TX 5

Never expect your partner to be a mind reader. If you didn't tell him you wanted him to take the day off, you can't expect him to KNOW you wanted him to take the day off. Stop pouting and make birthday plans for his day off... but TELL HIM. In the meantime, have a girls' day with your friend.

xxWTFxx1981 23

I mean did you ask him to take the day off sounds like you did it yourself.