Today, it's been six months since I started dating this guy. For the majority of the relationship he would accuse me left and right of lying, cheating, and more. After stressing me the fuck out to my breaking point, now six months later, he casually admits that it was all a ploy to control and use me. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, my boyfriend of a year decided to confess to me that almost everything he has told me in our relationship has been a lie. This includes telling me that he was single when we first met, telling me that he loved me, and telling me that I was beautiful. FML
Today, I learnt my boyfriend has just been using me for character development for the last 5 years. FML
Today, I tried to talk to my soon-to-be-husband about how he needs to take a more active approach in his own life. It devolved to him screaming at me and putting words in my mouth. This has been going on for six months. FML
Today, I found out that the guy I’d been seeing for four months, with holidays, gifts, intimacy, meeting friends, the whole “building something” vibe, had secretly been on a dating app sleeping with another girl the whole time (she also still doesn't know). He lied, offered no apology, and justified his actions by saying, “We weren’t official.” FML
Today, my husband admitted that he's been spying on me for the last 5 years to see if I was cheating, out of paranoia brought on by his own cheating for all 5 of those years. FML
Today, I learned that my boyfriend of a year and half hit up another girl to hang out while we were six months into dating. He even shared photos with her from a day trip I was on. FML
Today, after being together for 8 months, I learned that not only was my boyfriend a liar, but that he is also married, and has been for 4 years. FML
Today, I found out the guy I've been in an exclusive, serious relationship with for the last twelve months has been using online dating apps for the past three months, but it's "only chatting" and he doesn't consider it cheating. FML
Today, I escaped an abusive relationship, only for him to manipulate my family into thinking i’m crazy. FML
Today, I went through my boyfriend’s phone. He'd told his brothers, mom, and mutual friends that I was at a psych ward, after I went crazy. We have been back together for four months now after that situation, so no wonder I got the vibe they hate me. Why lie about something so stupid? FML
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FluffythePink 24
Dare we hope that you are single again?
Justkidding100 41
you need to know your own worth and dump him on the first date next time
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Comments (7)
FluffythePink 24
Dare we hope that you are single again?
Justkidding100 41
you need to know your own worth and dump him on the first date next time
Taurus_ChicKa 37
If he did that for the majority of your relationship, you should have left him a long time ago. Major red flags.
Iamthebanzai22 21
If I was your dad, I would have gotten very medieval on his soon to be very dead ass. Maybe you should tell your dad. Or older brothers. Or uncle. Or someone who hates the guts of people like him and have really dark and sadistic fantasies.
Crowned Sataness 12
I see you have met my ex
idragosani 17
Kick him to the curb, there's no reason to put up with that
MistressAfrodite 5
you deserve better than that. don’t ever be so desperate for a man that you put up with that shit. you should have dumped the moment you noticed it was a pattern.