Don't bite off more than you can chew

By What do I do? - 09/07/2025 15:00 - Germany - Berlin

Today, and for sometime, my husband and I have been discussing owning a home - a house or an apartment or other options. I've always wanted to live in a house, but I'm 100% sure I can't keep up with the chores or keep it clean. An apartment I can manage to clean, but not a house. I told him my vote is for apartment. FML
I agree, your life sucks 164
You deserved it 365

Same thing different taste

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You are fortunate to have the wherewithal to buy a home! There exist huge apartments and small houses, if square foot cleaning is an issue. Housecleaners might be less expensive than you think; same with lawn care. Lots to think about. This is a fun part of being an adult!

Worse than cleaning. Household repairs can be financially devastating

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You are fortunate to have the wherewithal to buy a home! There exist huge apartments and small houses, if square foot cleaning is an issue. Housecleaners might be less expensive than you think; same with lawn care. Lots to think about. This is a fun part of being an adult!

Cleaning a whole house does suck! Great points to look at. And having extra space, just to have extra space. Sometimes not worth it

a whole tiny house or a huge apartment. ?

Worse than cleaning. Household repairs can be financially devastating

GoogieWithers 23

With a house purchase, you will also own the land it is on. But you will also be liable for external repairs and land maintenance. An apartment purchase will possibly mean that you will never own the land and may have to pay yearly maintenance fees but will never have to pay out for a big external repair. Please, if you are looking at an apartment, check what the outside cladding is made from. Grenfell in the UK was horrible.

You know, there are different sizes of houses. I myself got an apartment and a house (because of some insurance payout I got after I was involved in a car accident). The house is two stories and 60 square metres in base surface, and if you just decide it needs doing and get to it, it doesn't take that long. So I say you should try for a house, you might surprise yourself!

its nice for someone to think about these things… no one ever does, can tell they have lived on their own before 🤣 always choose whats practical, not what looks nice