the bright side, all of the stress will make a Marriage stronger, or speed up its destruction.

They say the first year of marriage is the toughest!

I used to jokingly say to friends that the difference between pets and children is that if all else fails you can have a pet “put to sleep” but you cannot do that with kids. But seriously, a pet is not a human member of your family no matter how much you love them. With human members of your family you do not spare any expense that you can pay that will save their lives and health. With a pet you may need to make a more hard nosed decision sometimes as to what you can afford to do and what you cannot. And by the way I am an animal lover, I have had cats and dogs (1 at a time) in my life and I loved them.

If you guys can get through this, you can make it through anything

Was everything supposed to reset in 2021? My creditors didn't get the memo.