Well there are at least some things that you can clean from a person's appearance if they are obese. You can tell how much they eat, how often they bathe, how often they work out, and maybe a few other things. Calling someone shallow for not being attracted to an obese person is rather shortsighted. My guess is you are obese and don't like your fellows being judged. The problem is this girl misrepresented herself and attracted a guy based on pictures. Pictures also don't show your personality. They only show how you look. This is not a great way for people who don't look good to meet people who want to find someone who looks good. I know that they say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder but I was speaking from the beholder's perspective.

So according to you obese people don’t deserve love because of the way they look? Not all obese people “don’t work out or don’t shower” There’s people with genetics, thyroid conditions etc. Writing someone off because they don’t fit YOUR standard of beauty is shallow and selfish. Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. By the way, I am not obese. I am someone who sees the good in others regardless of how they look.

no they are not shallow. this person blatantly lied and catfished. that's never ok. also everyone has a preference. if he isn't attracted to a obese person it doesn't matter if they have a great personality. although I highly doubt this person has a great personality because they lied. it also is unattractive when someone can't properly wash themselves. you are shallow for automatically attacking the open because they don't like liars

Ok, let's ignore her obesity for a minute and take a look at her other qualities: using old and way outdated photos of herself on a dating app to catfish potential dates, and not bathing properly to the point of developing rank B.O. If you haven't met your soulmate yet, let me ask you this: Do you see your soulmate as someone who lies to try to snake their way into other people's personal lives, and/or as someone who can't be bothered to exercise proper hygiene?

FFS she didn’t lie. If she did she would have used pictures of someone else. DUH And studies show people who have “preferences” will never have a happy love life because their standards of beauty are ****** up. Superficial shit will get you nowhere in life.

A lot of people are overweight because of things they can’t control (aka Thyroid conditions, genetics, etc.) You should be looking at people’s personality rather than looks. All that glitters isn’t gold. What good is a hot slim body if their personality is trash?