Breach of contract

By can I say told you so?! - 04/01/2023 12:00

Today, my husband was served child support paperwork by the couple he insisted on donating his sperm to. When I tried to warn him beforehand, he said I was being a jealous, paranoid, control freak and that it was his decision to help out some friends. We’re already struggling financially. Thanks babe. FML
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How did he donate the sperm? The natural way? Or how is it possible that he has to pay child support?!

If he didn't bother with a contract that's absolutely stupid on his part. My petty ass would file for visitation, make them think twice

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How did he donate the sperm? The natural way? Or how is it possible that he has to pay child support?!

If you don’t have a legal written agreement that you’re donating sperm with zero legal, financial or parental obligations, then you can’t prove that that was the agreement you came to, and the other party can sue you for child support. Sounds like OP was aware of that but husband decided to go with the honor system instead

Sounds like he had a handshake agreement. So to speak.

What do you mean he "insisted on donating sperm to?" Are you saying he politely forced it on them? Did he bang the wife or did they have a threesome? Shouldn't they have insisted on having his sperm?

If he didn't bother with a contract that's absolutely stupid on his part. My petty ass would file for visitation, make them think twice

Visitation? Fight for custody at this point. If I was being forced to pay for a kid, I'm going to enforce my rights