Today, at a family gathering, it emerged that my now ex-fiancé has been sleeping with his brother's girlfriend for some time now. A fight broke out, the police were called, and more than one of his relatives are blaming me for him cheating with her. FML
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Force of habit, or just mean?
Today, my fiancée’s siblings kept calling me by her ex-boyfriend’s name. FML
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YellowKettleBell 31
How can it possibly be your fault?
cosicosei 22
Well at this point you're not involved with the family anymore, so who gives a crap?
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Comments (68)
YellowKettleBell 31
How can it possibly be your fault?
elibel 16
She's bad in bed?
greeneyebeauty9 28
Ooor because the family obviously has issues?
sunnyray812 42
#7, that's a ****** up and vain reason to cheat on someone.
JMichael 25
7- this is the third idiotic statement I have seen from you.
AbstraktThoughts 13
18: Is there ANY good reason to cheat?
NeatNit 32
#38: define 'good reason'. Some would say that dissatisfaction is a good reason.
sunnyray812 42
#39, even dissatisfaction isn't a good reason. If you're not happy, just leave. That's better than betrayal.
eyepuppy 31
Pretty sure #7 was joking. Lighten up.
yahoowizard 16
I felt 7 was saying possible reasons as to why they were blaming the wife. Not an opinion of 7 on OP.
l0lmadis0n 12
Don't worry you'll find someone worth your time!
martialart1st18 19
That's not your fault they need to chill
th4m4ster 6
FYL, but the sooner you find out the better for you.
cosicosei 22
Well at this point you're not involved with the family anymore, so who gives a crap?
domolovesyoshi 33
I do believe he became the ex fiancé at this gathering
elcee1987 18
This was actually quite helpful, thank you
greeneyebeauty9 28
What kind of messed up logic is that?!
Sandman366 6
The "You fail logic forever" brand. Its sad how many people buy from them.
persianninja 23
i really wonder how you ended up being the person that everyone is pointing fingers to
duuuh1 11
It doesn't matter, he's responsible for his own actions. He could have sacked up and broken it off before he stabbed his brother in the back.
amisenho 11
People come up with plenty of stupid reasons to try to justify why the cheater is the victim in these cases. Usually, it's to make themselves feel better about their choices - to make themselves not look like the bad guy - and use their significant other as a scapegoat for their problems (i.e., she was boring in bed, so I had no choice but to shop around elsewhere; his attitude when discussing having kids drove me to seek another; it's his/her fault I wasn't happy in the relationship and found love somewhere else, etc.). No doubt, OP was a victim of illogical poppycock; the ex probably drummed up sympathy by saying he wasn't happy with OP, and they gave him the benefit of the doubt by overlooking his infidelity and projecting the causes onto OP in the process. In other words, they were blaming the tree for being where the fire was.
olpally 32
Walk away from that situation, that's insanity!
Ben009 13
Sounds pretty Jerry Springer up in there
i_h8t_everything 12
Oh I've encountered other's parents who are like that: ones that refuse to believe that their "flawless child" is guilty in any situation, thus why if their kid hurts somebody outside of their bloodline, they give that person the blame for their son's/daughter's actions. Don't worry, OP. Just be grateful that you're no longer with that asshole. You'll find somebody better.
TunaFireStarter 16
I understand people who are like that, but why blame OP? It seems more logical to blame the brother's girlfriend to me. Maybe there is something else there and this is just an excuse to do be angry with OP?
Setareh23 34
I'm guessing it's just a question of playing favorites. The brother's gf may be more liked than OP, so they use OP as a convenient scapegoat to avoid blaming anyone else. Talk about denial!