By Feronia - 05/05/2015 21:00 - Netherlands - Goes
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It's not that I'm mad at my neighbours for calling the cops, honestly I would've done the same. I'm just upset about officers barging in and handcuffing my boyfriend without explanation. They tried taking him out of the appartment, still handcuffed, still no explanation. Until I started yelling at them to let him go and tell me what the **** was going on they wouldn't give me a second glance. And yes, child protective services were called, and they showed up a bit later. They didn't fully believe me when I said my partner has never laid a finger on me, and they insisted on regular counseling. So now we have a counselor for an unknown amount of time, because they can't get it into their thick skulls that babies scream sometimes. And I live in constant fear, because if our daughter so much as scratches herself or bumps her head against the table we have a chance of losing her. Granted, a small chance, but a chance none the less. Also, our schedules are different from most people because of our job, we mostly live during the night, so it's normal for our kid to be up at 11pm. We're looking for other jobs to fix that.
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Seriously how can people not hear the difference? But on the bright side you have neighbors that will call the cops if something happens
I think neighbors can be assholes, I went outside and wouldn't come in unless my mom, who was making cookies so her hands had a lot of dough on them, opened the door for me. My sisters both opened the door and I said no, I even big one. I could open the door myself, but still, I was amass hole. Our neighbor ended up calling the police cause they thought my mom locked me outside.
No, I was a real asshole when I was a kid. I grew up though and grew past that. I don't do anything stupid like that anymore. I do feel bad for my mom, that was probably the least bratty thing I've done when I was a kid... I hate to admit it but I was a devil child... I flooded the living room with the hose. I know people will hate me for being an asshole kid but I'm not destructive anymore, and I don't do stupid stuff anymore.
Regardless, babies should be asleep by 11pm. And at that time, I can understand why your neighbours would want some sleep as well.
#26, you're right that it can be terribly difficult (and sometimes flat-out impossible) to get a baby to sleep when you want it to. To be fair, though, if a baby has been literally screamingly happy for 45 minutes straight, chances are good the kid's been being stimulated rather than calmed, and stimulation is a great way to NOT get a kid to fall asleep. OP, if your baby screams happily for that long despite a calming nighttime routine and lack of stimulation, I feel for you and your neighbors -- FYL, and best of luck to you all.
Being a neighbour is not a full time job tho. They should know better to keep their spawn under control, not to bother other people. I wish there were way more kids related social rules, as people are permanently harassed by kids that will NEVER be told/made to chill down. Might appear mean here, but after reading the follow up, with CPS and whatnot, makes me feel good. Maybe these fail parents will learn how not to affect OTHER people in the future.
#33 and #46, she can't even sit by herself yet, let alone understand social rules and respect. You tell me how to quiet down a six month old who is determined to keep making noise without knocking her out, and then we'll talk. And for the love of god, don't call children 'spawn'. I mean, really?
Great to know people are so happy at the though of other people's lives being ruined. I am not that fond of children but I would NEVER wish CPS on a family that treats their children well. One small mistake boom you have to go through millions of hoops just to get your baby back. I am truly disgusted by these two.