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OP, here. Once, I got out of the shower and wrapped myself in a towel. It was hot so I cracked a window to let in fresh air. Somehow that was indecent and I got yelled at, and he's been on my case ever since.
By HellCat44 / Friday 26 August 2016 09:59 / United Kingdom - Dartford
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By  saifnaqvi11  |  21

Does he like... Watch you undress to make sure you're not by Windows ? How would and obsession like this even work? How does he know when you're undressing ?

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  species4872  |  19

Seriously! Is that called for

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  coldcrypt  |  2

Her father was probably taking out the trash and caught a glimpse. Got traumatized and is trying to get her to not do it again but also not wanting to say why cuz he's probably embarrassed.

By  GhostFox  |  33

Window peeping is unfortunately common, and being in a wooded area would honestly make it easier for someone to get to viewing height unseen. That said, your dad is still being overprotective if he's truly obsessing over it, as well as unfair if he lets any of your siblings (if you have any) walk around in any state of undress.

By  Thaylok  |  5

Almost all men believe in premarital sex. that changes when their first daughter is born. He knows how guys think, and doesn't want guys treating his daughter like chopped liver....

By  HellCat44  |  17

OP, here. Once, I got out of the shower and wrapped myself in a towel. It was hot so I cracked a window to let in fresh air. Somehow that was indecent and I got yelled at, and he's been on my case ever since.

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  fannyadams  |  3

Monitoring your showers? Ugh. Don't know for sure but ... He definitely is far too interested in your body parts. I wouldn't remove a stitch unless I knew he was out the door. Creepy af.

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  whatoftoday  |  6

He's just looking out for you. I'm a father as well and there are so many pervert stories that we get it in our heads that we need to protect our daughters from those people. The kinds of people who'd watch girls with bad intentions.

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  siggy_mcsigx  |  17

OP might I suggest sheer curtains? Sparkly white ones with like cross stitching do a good enough job during the day and they let breezes through when the window is open. Drawing the blinds in the evening is a good habit to get into. My mom was more concerned than my dad was about this growing up and that's what she taught me. Good luck

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  mip_92  |  28

I mean, I completely understand that he wants to protect you and make sure nothing happens to you but it's the PERVERT'S fault, not yours if anything like that were to happen. I don't think this is intentional but he's basically shaming you for being a woman. Though I do agree, maybe getting some curtains can help your dad chill out

By  Kaylana_fml  |  27

I've read of stalking/murder cases that started out like this. Mostly murder mystery novels but still... This sounds like merely a healthy dose of paranoia. It isn't a bad idea to take your father's advice, especially if you are as isolated from public view as it sounds. That just makes your house an easier target.

By  Sparx1_1  |  16

Your dad probably saw you, or came very close to seeing you, accidentally when he was outside. Even though it would have been completely innocent he is probably embarrassed that it happened and not able to tell you that it happened. But is now worried that it might happen again and that it will be some creeper next time.

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