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I don't think she'd need a tape recorder, tbh. Not paying her and not writing the letter should be proof enough of retaliation. It would at least raise enough of a suspicion that it would be looked into by the university. If any students witnessed her working during those two months, it would look even better for her. Also, the university would definitely be more likely to settle than to take it to court. If I were her, I would demand to be placed with a different, possibly female, teacher (I doubt this professor is the only one in his field), and that someone in the administration write a recommendation for the scholarship application. The university should also have to pay any late fees incurred by her not being paid. If it were me, I'd get that all in writing by a University administrator.
#101 what the fuck do you she should do? He shouldn't get away with doing this. I agree that a lot of people are sue-happy, but in this instance, it's probably the best route. If not for her pay, for the hostile environment he's created by declining to write the letter because she rejected him.
I agree. Suggest OP start with the college's vice-president or other officer of academic affairs. That's what most colleges and universities call the administrator who oversees the faculty. This person will probably talk to the slimeball and his department head. Sometimes that type of action is enough to scare that sort of slimeball into doing what's right, however belatedly. If the school can't or won't help you, check out your county's Legal Aid Office and see if you qualify for their assistance. If he gets away with this with you, he is going to keep doing this to other students until someone gives him the trouble he deserves. I would bet a lot that you aren't his first victim.
now that sucks for u 1. no scholarship 2. credit report gets messed up I'm sure u have a male friend who'll b willing to beat his ass up for u. 4th haha
YD! Sure it sucks but thats life. You could have just said yes. I guess your regretting you decision now. lol.
You blowing it out of proportion. If she sues and loses, then it will backfire on her. Teachers can do alot to screw you. Besides, she can't get a recommendation from him anymore either. Seeing how girls are today, she'd probably end up sleeping with some random guy anyway, she might as well sleep with her professor.
20, as Apfluxx said, men are just as capable of doing that. You just proved yourself wrong, seeing as HE was the one wanting to have a relationship beyond profession with her, which she rightfully declined. As far as I see it, he's lucky she hasn't told his wife, boss & the head of education.
Maybe the only girls YOU know are sluts, but obviously the op has morals, and won't have sex with people just to get what she wants. I applaud you op, because you actually have morals! Trustno1fox, you must be really dense to think all girls just sleep around with random guys and that it's ok to sleep with a married man.
Oh don't they? So when men are found cheating, they aren't sleeping around? Men just aren't seen as sleeping around, they call it men being men. It's a stupid double-edged sword, and if you really don't see that, you should just kill yourself. Right now. Just. Kill. your. Self.