By kittykat798 - 17/04/2014 00:00 - United Kingdom - Dundee

Today, I went to a restaurant for a friend's birthday. There were two very attractive waiters. They waited until I went to the toilet to sit down, talk to my friends and hit on them. They promptly left upon my return. Men avoid me. FML
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It definitely wasn't their breaks! It was weird because they didn't even ask for my friends numbers or anything, just chatted with them. There was enough room at the table for them to have done that with me there, so it wasn't that. It was almost like I was too intimidating or something! I found it quite funny in a tragic kind of way and that's probably because of the terrible relationship I've just come out of. I really didn't expect so many nice comments, you guys are the best!

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Well that's their loss! I bet you're a great girl with lots to offer. Don't let them bring you down!


Myabe they respect you too much to objectify you? :-/

Hitting on someone doesn't mean you don't respect them

Sorry to go off on a tangent, but i love your profile pic. Your nose looks like a little rocket ship prepping for launch.

Well that's their loss! I bet you're a great girl with lots to offer. Don't let them bring you down!

she said I bet. and because every girl is great in their own way...

Call me an optimist, I see nothing to the contrary. so I'm pretty sure she does as most women do.

#5 Because she is a psychic. I agree all women have good qualities, all in different ways.

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#37, perhaps it's to show that there is still good people in this world. Even if the OP doesn't read the comments, at least she is giving the effort to be a positive person.

You only need to look at the post itself to see that she was only into them for superficial reasons. It's only fair that they presumably rejected her for similar superficial reasons.

what non-superficial reason can you have to like someone you don't know? it's not shallow to be attracted to people.

I hate when that happens:( sorry OP but obviously they aren't worth your time

Apparently, she isn't worth their time.

OP was only drawn to them because they were attractive. "OMG, they are so superficial for liking your hot friends more. You're above them."

ThatOneGuy719 16

You'll find that special someone OP, no worries

That's precisely what they won't let her do!

rdenkewicz 11

You don't know they left because of you! And even if they did you're gonna find someone who loves you for you :) you don't deserve them.

It works both ways... She doesn't deserve them can equal they don't deserve her

I heard cats work pretty well when those kinds of things happen.

91hayek 31

Wait. So women are upset when we don't hit on them, but are upset and feel violated when we do? I'm probably really backward on this but is there a right way to 'hit on' women? Or should I be more attractive? Some men didn't lech on OP, how is this a FML?

AnOriginalName 19

Firstly, your pic matches perfectly with your comment. And secondly, women are an enigma. There's no logic or reason to them, and your head will explode if you try. The best thing to do is try and figure out some of the more general signs that they're into you, and go from there. Because women won't approach you first, even if they have a massive crush on you. Women are weird. But they have boobies, so that's why we like then.

#15, have you considered that maybe all women aren't exactly the same and some prefer different things than others do?