By Very_Bad_Luck - 10/08/2009 04:41 - United States

Today, I was having a serious discussion with my girlfriend of 11 months. I broke the news that I was diagnosed with Lymphoma and I needed her support through my treatments. Ten minutes after, I receive a text saying that she can't endure the pain and stress that I'm causing her, and that we're done. FML
I agree, your life sucks 69 262
You deserved it 3 296

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Wow, what a bitch. You should be happy she's gone.

Well, dude, I gotta be honest: If she wasn't willing/able to support you through this, she's not the one for you anyway. To be fair, it couldn't be easy for her, either (no, it's not 'all about her', but neither is it an easy thing to see someone through) and if you can't cope, you just can't cope. It sucks but it's how it goes. Really, though, the reality is that if you *really* love someone, there's pretty much nothing you won't support them through, and she just wasn't in it. FYL, mate. Best of luck, hope everything turns out well and that you have other people (who really love you) to support you through this shitty time.

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I'd like to kick that bitch!

He's just replying to you to get higher up... though he might in fact actually kick you, so watch out!

I'm so sorry man. And that girl is a fuck. Don't let her back into your life.

I'd like to kick the shit out of #1. Fuck you she should be supportive and less selfish. Oh you're the one with the real issue but you're just killing me inside so I'm gonna go ahead and leave you, making it worse. FUCK HER, and fuck you. I hope that bitch dies.

well i was wondering how old are you?

I'm pretty sure that's a lot to ask from someone you've been with for less than a year. It's kind of unfair

Not really , I went through the chemo, trust me it's not so terrible that it'd be unbearable for someone to sit by you while you go through it.

it's not like he was asking her for one of her hands or something lol he was just asking her to be there. that's pretty messed up that she did that though.

Unfair? how about him trusting her with that and her ditching him? THAT's unfair.

WHATEVER, my (now ex) FIANCÉ couldn't handle my diagnosis of Multiple Sclerosis which at the time was serious but not severe. It's not about the amount of time, it's the strength of the person and relationship.

I really don't get how this is unfair of the girlfriend. That's a long - term relationship and all OP asked for was some support in a time that must be terrifying for him! If someone you care about is in trouble you put aside you're own problems and help them, that's how it works. Also does anyone know if OP is ok now? I hope so, good luck OP if you're still fighting.

Yeah, it's hilarious. Sorry to hear about your diagnosis, but I guess if that little bitch doesn't want to help her boyfriend of 11 months through treatment of cancer, best to get rid of her now.

Oh yeah because that's real funny, you dumb bitch

2- Yeah, I'm cracking up. Go burn in hell.

Wow, what a bitch. You should be happy she's gone.

agreed. when you're going through something like that you need positivity and strength. good luck!

And it's not even like she TRIED. FYL indeed, and I hope you're okay.

that really sux man... my step dad wazdiagnosed with cancer earlier this year and even though he didnt make it through there wasnt a single person that gave up... i feel really bad for you... but she obviously wasnt the right one for u... but i really hope u make it through... and i would try to make that little bitch cry XD

Wow, because it's all about her.

Wishing you all the luck and strenght. And if you did'nt allready dumped her ass, now is the time to do it!

Um, dude, read the FML again. The point is she dumped him. Well, realistically, the greater FML is the cancer, but you get the point.

That's probably the saddest thing I've heard this year. What a selfish bitch. Hope you get better though, and wishing you all the luck for the future!

Well, dude, I gotta be honest: If she wasn't willing/able to support you through this, she's not the one for you anyway. To be fair, it couldn't be easy for her, either (no, it's not 'all about her', but neither is it an easy thing to see someone through) and if you can't cope, you just can't cope. It sucks but it's how it goes. Really, though, the reality is that if you *really* love someone, there's pretty much nothing you won't support them through, and she just wasn't in it. FYL, mate. Best of luck, hope everything turns out well and that you have other people (who really love you) to support you through this shitty time.