By Candycane88 - 26/03/2013 14:12 - United States - Hemet
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someone needs to realize the value of what they have
Tell him to go fuck himself OP. He should always consider you the most beautiful woman in the world, you're his wife for goodness sake! Time to start doing date night again, wearing sexy dresses, and anything else to get his attention. If he doesn't start to see it again then it might be time to reevaluate this marriage. I am not one to jump on the divorce bandwagon but when you aren't appriciated in a relationship it is time to go. Try to make it work and for him to see why he married you. Try and fix it. Oh! And don't try "swinging" to fix the relationship.
Not everyone is physically beautiful and honestly it shouldn't matter. If someone tells me that I'm not pretty I'm not going to cut them out of my life because it doesn't mean anything. I can't control my appearance because that's what I was given when I was born. If someone calls my personality ugly then there's reason to lose that person because who you are on the inside is something you can't change.
I didn't say "physically beautiful." If that is the only reason he married her then thats another problem all together. There is more to a relationship than the physical stuff. But if he puts her down like that after receiving a complement do you think thats unhealthy? I sure as hell do.
43- What I mean is that the husband probably took the "most beautiful woman" compliment as one that was towards her physical appearance because I doubt the guy knows her personality which is why the husband commented that the other guy needed to get out more. That doesn't mean that she needs to file for divorce. All it means is that her husband thinks that they guy probably hasn't seen other more physically appealing women. That's not to say that he doesn't love her though.
Lol he wasn't joking, but he wasn't trying to insult me either, in his mind that comment was trying to insult the guy hitting on me, strangely my hubby adores me and is a great guy, it's just funny the way it came out.