By HeyTherexxx - 21/04/2014 01:02 - United States - Diamond Bar
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Which hole would you even put it in?!
Wow that really sucks OP. But you should tell your stepdad. Your mom isn't with your real dad for a reason and if there are problems in your mom and stepdads relationship they need to deal with it like adults and not invoke the kids and get the hopes up by thinking that their parents are gonna get back together. And if your on speaking terms with your real dad tell him that sleeping with your mom is a big no.
you're right, they should not involve the kids in their mess. OP has NO obligation to tell anyone anything. She can tell her mom or her Dad (since she caught them) how awkward it is for her , but that's all OP needs to say. OP is in an awkward situation but the best thing for OP to do is to not get involved further and let her parents sort it out on their own terms.
The thing is though, no one is agreeing with you. Some do but not almost all of them, most children seeing their parents fight and destroy themselves makes them relieved that the fighting is almost over. Running back and forth between comforting my sobbing little sister and screaming at my dad to just stop hitting my mother was one of the worst moments in my entire life. While that is more extreme then a lot of people experience the yelling alone is heart wrenching and traumatic for many.
Unfortunately, seeing them was inevitable. I'm trying not to get involved, but needless to say, it's difficult. Apparently, my mother is going to tell my step-dad, but she's a liar sometimes. One step at a time, I suppose.