By Anonymous - 12/03/2022 10:00
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Don't be silly. No one gets buried in a house unless they're murdered there.
Being childless was not her choice alone. You have to live with the decisions you’ve made.
Marriage is a two way street, my friend. It cannot have been "by her choice" because that's not how functional marriages work. The time to sit down and have a long conversation or divorce early is long since passed, but don't shift the blame entirely into your wife's lap. Whether through fear or through laziness or whatever it was that led you to get to this point, you both did it. You both let it get this far. Also, children are not the only way someone can avoid being alone. Unless you are specifically worried about who will take care of you when you're old (a terrible reason to want kids, btw) you can and should get out into your community to make friends and foster relationships with your friends and neighbors. Stop pouting and sitting back seat to your own life - that's obviously what got you here in the first place.